Is it normal to not take gay or interracial couples seriously?

Love has no race or gender.

Also...don't ask people questions if you're going to be defensive on all the responses. Noone in here has said anything offensive to you or is calling you out...so quit being so guarded and just listen to the responses that come in.

I am the sharter in the relationship

You know, I can understand the same-sex part (on a gut reaction level) but I can't wrap my head around having that reaction to a race one at all. But I suppose it's down to what you grew up thinking was normal.

Relationships are like fine wines, there are many aspects, they get better with age, they are wonderful. Gay and interracial couples are grape soda

In all the seriousness ... I think that you are reacting like this since It's not something that you are used to. Just as I have some things that I just really react to and take less serious.

As long as you aren't treating these people bad or do something, no real harm done.

You're correct, it's not normal at all to be gay. Let alone a gay relationship.

To be honest people in a gay relationship are just selfish, no one want's to see their gayness on the street. It's revolting.

You know what I actually don't see this as all too bad. I mean you don't vocalize you're opinion and you support gay marriage. It sounds like you aren't use to seeing many gay or interracial couples, which is understandable. As you said it's an instinctual dislike, but you seem to be aware that it's wrong. While I don't think this is normal, you're not causing a problem so I don't see this as too bad.

It's just a sign that you're uncomfortable with interracial and gay relationships. Doesn't mean you have a problem with them...but most likely where you're from its not common. Is it normal? I mean what the hell is normal? Is it acceptable? It depends. Treating people differently because of this isn't. But haven't a guttural reaction is uncontrollable, involuntary...so don't worry about if its normal...just be accepting. The more you're around these types of relationships...the less you will prejudge.

I know what you mean, despite having dated members of my own gender myself. Kinda seems like they sometimes take straight/racial(?) relationships less seriously than their own too. Just talk to them more about their relationships and you will see that they are not so different from your own relationship experiences.

I guess it's normal. I mean you have the right to your opinion, but hate to break it to you pal, the nineteen fifties aren't coming back and gay people and interracial couples are not going to hide just because you get uncomfortable with their presence

inb4 shitstorm

2 late

fuk

You can't post bigotry and in a way demand people 'spare' lectures and react defensively, before anyone even commented. It shows your character off the bat; If you don't want to hear it, you'll try to avoid it and think the conversation should be dictated by you and fellow-bigots only.
You obviously know it's a loaded question. Proving you have the mental capacity to know your question is wrong from the get-go.. And it IS wrong. Everyone has the right to speak their opinion. Just as they have the right to live their life how they please (it's 2014) to not take a relationship serious, due to a person's race and sexuality, just shows pure ignorance and a lack of character. Males in their 40's. Not a shocker. You claim you do not take proactive measure to show 'disgust'. Most older people do not, these days, because they know their values from the 50's are dying and bigots are chastised these days. Causing the cowardly behavior (disagreeing, silently) which is good. Keep your thoughts about how other people live to yourself. You do not know what a 'normal' couple is. Heterosexual people (and I am one) and people who value the 'stick to your own race' clause, constantly think they were the 'normal' people. But reaching 2014; bigots, thankfully, are dying off and becoming the actual minority. It's funny when divorce rate has always been so high, you see psychotic couples abusing/even killing each other out of jealousy, molestation in their homes', kids despising their parents (the list does goes on, doesn't it) and somehow other heterosexual people think THEY are some standard in such a distorted sanctimonious box. It is quite funny!

Were you raised in an area or around a family member that was particularly homophobic/racist?
Obviously these aren't good thoughts you're having and you don't want to have them, so just correct yourself every time you think something like this. Maybe eventually you'll start to feel different.