Is it normal to not read the signs?

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First of all I have a lot of male friends, I get on with them better, relate to their humour more but obviously it has its downfalls and my main one is when I'm interested in someone I literally can't tell if they like me or not, I just assume we're friends. I've recently become close to one guy, we talk every day, we text/fb every day, he'll calls me every night and we play C.O.D every night (Yes I know what a loser I am coming across as right now) and in all honesty I never thought anything of it until a female friend commented on how quickly we have become close and how much we talk. I'd still think nothing of it apart from ONE thing really confuses me. A couple of months ago he very briefly mentioned the fact he has a girlfriend, but everytime I ask him about her he will go out of his way to avoid the question and ultimately not answer the question at all. Does he have a girlfriend or not?! How confusing. The other day he rang me to tell me I'm the person he talks to the most according to his phone (some iPhone malarkey) surely the person he spoke to the most would be his girlfriend? I'm slightly on the stupidly self-conscious side (and he's rather stunning) so I'm convinced he doesn't like me. Plus he's loves his fashion and class and I'm on the plain/crazy side of the world so I'm not his type at all, I just can't see what is going on and it's making me want to smash my head off a wall. I just want to congratulate anyone who actually reads all this and takes it in, talk about writing an essay =)

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  • lsuccv
    13 years ago

    Hey, the intruiging thing I find about this entry is that you never told us if you liked him or not. Surely that's the first thing you need to work out. Honestly I felt like I was reading a diary entry I wrote when I was younger. It's totally cool to hang out with boys if you click better with them- they're so much simpler to deal with.
    As for if he likes you I think you just need to ask him. There's never enough time for mind games. Get it over with and ask the question.

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  • NCman89
    13 years ago

    Why exactly would you come across as a loser because you play C.O.D. hopefully black ops but anyways. He has to like you more than a friend I would never talk to someone that much without liking them more. Maybe he mentioned the girlfriend to gauge your reaction about him being taken. I know I've done that before and maybe that is where I went wrong since nothing ever came from it. I'd just ask him we're pretty honest about things like that

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    Lol im not his type..... You're not in his head, don't try to guess what he thinks. You just have to observe through his actions. He likes you more than a friend

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  • dragon_heart
    13 years ago

    I really dont believe he doesnt like you. Why would he spend so much time with you if he did?
    Just talk to him honestly! Im sure he kinda feels the same like you!

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  • st1
    13 years ago

    In ways seems like he's dropping hints like telling you he talks to you most but if you honestly want to know what is going on whether it be like if he has feelings for you or just friends or what's up with his girlfriend you just need to ask him directly and if he try's to avoid the question try to prompt him to tell you more, there is no point in being confused if you two are good friends, communication is key in any type of relationship.

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