Is it normal to not put pictures of couples together in facebook?

I can actually empathize with your husband. Here's a question, when you take a picture are you doing it to capture the moment or are you doing it to get likes on facebook? Personally, I dislike when my father takes pictures of me with my family because it sort of cheapens the memory by posting it online for everyone to see and comment on. The times that we spend with our loved ones are private intimate moments. In your case, the moment belongs to you and your husband, not everyone on your friends list.

The best thing that could happen to your relationship is deleting your facebook account -both of you.

I had lots of fights about different little, annoying subjects with my ex, used to get jealous, all this bullshit.

If you had an argument about pictures on Facebook that was so serious he left the house I would think that there are probably more serious underlying problems in your marriage :/

Maybe he just doesn't want to expose his private life an precious moments to the world like that.

If he doesn't want any photos of himself on Facebook it would seem pretty normal that he doesn't want any more of him up there. Maybe the reason why you want them up there is to prove to your friends that you've got a spouse because that's all Facebook is about (showing off and keeping up with the Jones').

If he is okay with having photos of only himself, then that is sending you a pretty big message that he wants to portray himself as alone.

Sounds like your spider sense is going off. Something doesn't sound right about that. The only way I wouldn't put fb pics up of me & wife or girlfriend could be two reasons. Either I think she is totally ugly or I had chics I was trying to get at up there on my fb page & I didn't want them/female freinds to see them & turn them off. I have a friend who doesn't post any pics of his wife which is weird. He said its because she doesn't like taking pics. Well I seen his wife & she's nothing to bring home to momma! She is ugly! & he's not proud of her. Now that might not be the case here. This actually sounds like he's trying to hide you. Just my opinion I could be wrong though. & to hell with a facebook! People do take that too seriously. I mean, really I saw someone with like 1300 friends. Really! Not even 1 4th of them are actually friends! These people on fb are just nosey people & wanna see what the latest gossip is. I recently deactivated my account last week & is proud of it. I had 500 friends on there..really I had about 2 real friends outta that! Da rest of erbody else jus ignored my pics & stats. That's when I woke up. Fb is suppose to be a social network but it don't seem social when nobody is participating or liking or commenting. Well to get back on your subject. That's not normal he should have at the least liked it. The fact that he erased them means he's hiding something. & this is coming from a man.

thats pathetic

I had a huge fight over this topic with my boyfriend. He always claimed that I also have pictures with my other friends on facebook, why not pictures of us?! He accused me that I wanna be "on the market just in case" that "I will break up with him" or even "that I have a secret lover"...

That in return hurt me a lot because he had so little faith and thrust in me. He didn't believe me when I said that I have the opinion relationships are very intimate things and I don't wanna destroy ours by the internet! Nevertheless some stupid thing like facebook!

I also never had a relationship status in my profil (which was an other point my boyfriend disaproved) I NEVER had ANY status in my profile because my love-life should be of no interest to other people.

I am very happy with my boyfriend and I tell him every day but I don't have to present our relationship just because other people do it or because I feel insecure or because I want our/my life to look happier/better to outsiders.

Talk to your husband and trust him, he has his reasons hopefully you can find a compromise.

(In my case we have two to three pictures of us on facebook. We decided together which was an important point and the topic never bothered us again!)

I have one pic up of me and my boyfriend. I think that is enough to get the point across. He doesn't like pictures, though, and doesn't even have one of himself on his own profile.

Maybe you make him feel like less of a man by portraying him as constantly surrounded by your affection. Try taking a group pic with you and him casually next to each other. Don't force it though.. Unless it's a special occasion, that's just weird.

People take facebook too seriously.