Is it normal to not love you boyfriend as much as he loves you?

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About a month ago I started dating someone... First and foremost I think it's important to say we're in a (very) long distance relationship, but definitely have feasible plans to see each other soon. Simply, the way he talks about me makes me feel like I don't love him as much as he loves me. I mean, of course I love him, but he seems to hold me in such high regards, as if I'm his salvation, the best person he's met in his life... I think it's maybe in part due to me helping him through some very rough patches in his life a year or two ago (hence how we got so close in the first place) when he truly felt like nobody was there for him anymore. I almost feel guilty. Should I be more in love with him? Am I doing something wrong?

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  • Poisonous-Cupcakes
    5 years ago

    Just suck his dick and tell him that you love him. He won't suspect anything after that.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    You're asking for trouble in my humble opinion. The relationship is already one-sided and he's needy/desperate. Might want to reevalute whether it's a good idea to keep it going.

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  • BagThatWasSwell
    5 years ago

    Same here. Very similar circumstances, too. Anyway, I'm sure he understands. As long as you actually do love him in some way, it should be fine.

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  • CDmale4fem
    5 years ago

    Think of it as a different vocabulary. Maybe he just used bigger brighter words when referring to you. But no. You can only love to your ability that you feel for a person. You don't want to tell them things that may not be true just to avoid feeling guilty. Set him down or well get him in the phone, tell him what you have said here or read it to him. You say you do love him which is good. ALTHO it's not like a 3rd degree black belt in love with him or a beginners white belt. Biggest thing -COMMUNICATE. BE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER.

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