Is it normal to not like your boyfriend's child anymore???

This is really great advice! Good job.

Thank you. I always, pause when she says something... not quite so nice. She is only a child and not even mine so I hardly ever say anythong unless it is very serious. I understand fully that it must be very confusing for her, so i always play with her, have little child conversations with her, play games, show her attention... so on. I've come to realize that my feelings were stemming from a small silly jealousy. Being in a very new relationship and being a new mother was making me emotional, and i feel that I might've been going through a little phase where I needed to know that I was loved, and needed attention; feelings of insecurity. Boyfriend and I finally sat down one night and had a heart to heart (not about his little girl because she isn't a problem at all, my feelings were), and talked about the changes in our relationship. And I found my bad feelings draining away. We are all good now, thank you very much for your sound input. :)

Also, that rolling of the eyes thing is happening too. But whenever she does it she gets called out on it and punished. How is your boyfriend at disciplining her? If he never disciplines her and always let's that stuff slide, he needs to stick up for you and stop those habits ASAP.

Thank you, she's 6. Overall, she's a very sweet girl, especially when she wants to be, lol. I see that some people have the misconception that I "hate" her, which is the furthest thing from the truth. I love this little girl, truely, I only had bad, strange feelings that I couldn't understand or put my finger on at times. What helps me out sometimes is remembering that she has her own mother that is very actively in her life and that it is not my job to be her mother, otherwise it might be perceived that I am trying to take her mother's place, which I am not. I only want us all to get along and for everyone to get proper attention and to share and for everyone to know that they are deeply loved. I know that we won't ALWAYS get along, that there will be a time or two that we might bump heads in the future. It was only important to me that I make the best steps to the best of my knowledge and ability. I want to be a good mom to both children and a good (one day) wife. I'm sure that it will come with time and experience and making a few mistakes along the way and learning from them.
I really appreciate your input.

Excuse you, how very rude of you. Rape is never a casual thing it is very serious, and I am disgusted firmly and truly when someone uses the word "rape" out of context. I myself was raped, and i can tell you that it is most certainly NOT a laughing or casual thing. I do not watch Dr. Phil, I find that many of the people on those shows take their issues to extreme measures and do extreme things. My life is complicated and private enough, I would never display myself in such a distasteful light as to put myself on national television (though this does not apply to all). I came onto this site because I needed someone to talk to, someone to give me a little advice in my temporary moment of distress. Stop and think of how you might feel being in a similar situation, with its joys, fears, insecurities, and irritations. I am fully aware that part of my feelings were wrong, I also understand why I felt the way that i did, i felt that I had no ally. I understand that i am in a new relationship, a new family, and with that comes more than new responsibilities, it also comes with large emotional monsters. That does not make me a bad person, that makes me normal, and a good person, a smart person will stop and ask for help when they are feeling ovrrwhelmed, a bad person acks rashly, speaks thoughtlessly, and judges others, never trying to change. That is not me, so my advice would ve to read the top again, and see where I am at, see that ive done no wrong, and ask yourself how you woild feel, what you would do in my shoes.
You've said nothing encouraging or good for advice, please think twice before you post another comment to the next perso.

Thank you! Your answer was the most amazing, wise, and encouraging one yet. I really appreciate it. :) Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Thank you very much. I think that she is really starting to respect me, but I will definately keep that in mind the older that dhe gets and if we ever have trouble or a misunderstanding in the future.

Wow. Maybe your situation was much worse than mine, and I am very terribly sorry that you felt that way, and felt strongly about it enough to leave. To be perfectly honest, I've felt that way a time or two before myself, but what kept me from putting those thoughts into action was knowing that my boyfriend overall is a very good and decent man, and that she is just a child and thankfully still young enough that we can work and grow out of these stages in our lives together. I really hope the best for you, and that everything turns out for you. Unlike many that would stop and judge you, and not understand by being in the same situation; I can honestly say that I hear you, and I understand. Take care and I hope the best for you and your new baby. Mine is my little pride and joy.