Is it normal to not like your boyfriend?

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I know the question sounds bad, but the truth is I have the most amazing boyfriend that i just don't want sometimes. We're a complete personality match and we love eachother deeply, been together 4 years and been through an abortion together (I didn't want an abortion but due to hormone problems i wouldn't've been able to carry it properly). I do love him, he's kind, sweet, loving, caring and would do anything for me, but sometimes I simply dont like him as a person. He's everything i love but also everything I hate. Is it normal to feel so confused about a person after 4 years ? Will it work ?

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Based on 53 votes (22 yes)
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  • Believer
    12 years ago

    Maybe you just need some space from him sometimes.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    You are maybe still recovering from the emotional trauma of the abortion coz you don't say what he's doing to annoy you. It will only work out if you like him as a person, as well as love him.

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  • amyxox23
    12 years ago

    Maybe it's little habits that bother you.

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  • AB1234
    7 years ago

    I voted "normal" on this one. I really WANTED to vote "not normal," but it seems to me that humans are rarely satisfied with what we have. Whether it's a new car, a bigger house, the "perfect" partner, we're often thinking, "what if..." This can create a great problem in relationships since people (hopefully) can't be discarded as easily as old jeans.

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