Is it normal to not like tomboys

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I know I'm being judgmental and I'm extremely sorry if anyone is offended, but I just want to know if anyone's with me. I can't help feel annoyed by the way they speak or dress. But I never exhibit these feelings to them though.

By tomboys, I mean girls who wish they're guys, not just like to wear guys' clothes.

I know I'm not homophobic or anything because I have no problem when it comes to non-tomboy lesbian couples or gay guys. And I don't feel that way towards sissy guys too. Its just the tomboys, I don't know why!

I'm a female by the way.

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  • Thatguy777
    12 years ago

    Tomboys aren't usually girls wishing they were guys...

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    • norLit
      12 years ago

      I second that. I'm a tomboy to the core, but I don't at all ever wish I was a boy. I just happen to be a girl who finds boy clothes more comfortable and I don't mind getting my hands dirty.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    I quite like tomboys. They always seem quite down to earth. Either that, or they're up a tree.

    Why does nobody climb trees any more? I climbed a tree last summer and just sat up there reading a book. Two little kids came past and looked at me like I'd clearly gone insane. Even the dog was confused.

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    • howaminotmyself
      12 years ago

      That sounds delightful. What book?

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      • dappled
        12 years ago

        It was your diary. And with some of the salacious things I read, I was lucky not to fall out of the tree! :P

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        • howaminotmyself
          12 years ago

          If you wish to keep reading, may I suggest a harness? ;)

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          • dappled
            12 years ago

            Weirdly, it was that bit about you in the harness that almost made me fall in the first place.

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            • howaminotmyself
              12 years ago

              Ah yes, fond memories of that harness. It's too bad that was lost in the fire...

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  • InsertBlankHere
    12 years ago

    There's a difference between tomboys and transsexuals--try not to confuse the terms.

    You shouldn't dislike them, but rather try to understand them. Do you think they like being feeling trapped in the wrong body? I'm not saying that they should have your sympathy, because they may not necessarily want it, but at least try to muster up some empathy. Imagine how you would feel if your current personality had been born into a man's body.

    Life isn't easy for these people, and your judgment doesn't make it any easier.

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  • brookiecookie
    12 years ago

    Your kinda dumb
    Just because your tomboy doesn't mean you have any wishes to become male. That's called transexual.
    But I guess to each his own, just don't judge someone individually. You might miss out on a great friend. Lol

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  • TotalAspie
    12 years ago

    I'd rather do away with gender roles (since I believe people should do what makes them happy), but since every society has them, it's not surprising that anyone would dislike anyone or anything that goes against the roles and expectations considered society's norm for genders.

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    You need to learn what a "tomboy" actually is.

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  • Oli
    12 years ago

    First thing I got to say is: You're an ass.

    Secondly, it's not a tomboy on what you're looking for, but FtM, or transgendered.

    Thirdly, why do you hate them? There is no reason to. Why can't you give compassion, because in their lives, they have to struggle with feeling not beimg able to express themselves, and not being the right gender.

    Last off, you are homophobic.

    LBGTQ, the "T" is transgendered. If you hate them, you can't say you're not homophobic.

    Nice hypocricy there.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    Hey, I'm a guy and sissy guys get on my nerves. I don't hate them but kind of like the screeching on a black board.

    We all have our picadellos

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  • Who_Fan4Life
    12 years ago

    It's ok, cherish the fact that you detest tomboys because why would you want to look like a man anyways, when you're a girl!

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  • Ryan556
    11 years ago

    Tomboys don't wish they were guys I've alwayse loved tomboys by the way in the way were I wana date um I'm a guy and I've never seen a tomboy say they wana be a boy

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  • Andyailin
    12 years ago

    Same here and i don't know why...

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    that sounds mean girls just cant win so it seems

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  • theabider
    12 years ago

    I was kind of a tomboy when I was younger, but now I have almost completely grown out of it, and am in love with the femininity of being a girl. I do get slightly annoyed by girls that look totally masculine, yes.

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  • MakienzyGirl11
    12 years ago

    Im a tomboy but i dont wear guys clothing. Do you hate me?

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