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...when you meet someone and you think they're really cool, until you realize they're just like you? is it normal to feel threatened by them?
That means since you are so simalar you have coflicting personalitys . This happens with poeple alot , like if one person has to always be right and they talk to the same kindve person they gonna fight cuase neither will back down . its like putting a stone with a stone you just make smaller rocks , if you hit a stick adn a stick they brake if you hit a rock and a stick I will garentee that rocks going to win and the stick will follow that is a wierd metophor but you get my piont .
Yup, happens with me.
I realized it's because i thrive in situations of conflict or when I'm the weird one.
I think it's a self esteem thing. They could easily replace us? They might be better versions of us? I dunno.
No, I'd think the opposite. I recently met this girl who's like me in almost every way and it's so refreshing to not have to try at all with her.
As far as I know, I've met people who are like me but without certain aspects. I prefer those aspects to be gone anyways, and if they did have those personality traits they probably wouldn't talk to me in the first place. I have a friend who sort of does this thing where I say something that he doesn't know, usually about comic books, then he'll try to talk to me about it like he knows everything about comic books. Anyways, I don't think of myself as cool but the people that I have met who closely resemble me, with minor altercations, I think are alright people to hang out with.
I often find traits that I don't like in myself incredibly annoying in someone else. But that's not what you are talking about is it?
I dislike it when sombody think they're like me, when in fact they aren't.
This guy thought he was like me, so I took a look on his Facebook, and then I seen a status of him saying "am a total criminal, me nd da boyz got a speedin ticket"...Instantly I knew he wasn't like me, he thought he was a criminal for a parking ticket, I would never of said or thought that.
My best friends are practically identical to me - in terms of personality. We believe in the same things and laugh at the same things. In fact, one even looks just like me.