Is it normal to not like sex..

ive not long come out of a long term domestic violence relationship. im really not interested in guys at the moment or even being close to them. however i still like to talk dirty with guys in chat rooms. my question is, is it normal to not want sex but still enjoy talking dirty to randoms in chat rooms?

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66% Normal
Based on 227 votes (149 yes)
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  • manateeprisoner

    It's extremely normal to feel that way after being in an abusive relationship. I say just hold off on guys until you think its time. But if you're talking dirty on chat rooms, be proud that you're making some lonely guys very happy. Good for you lol.

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  • @mar

    Very Normal!! It also sounds like you're making progress by talking dirty with these men. =D

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  • starkitty

    yes, totally normal

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  • rayst

    Lol its strange, it would be normal, considering your situation, that you don't want anything to do with sex, but the fact that you like talking dirty is nice cause it shows you're not completely traumatized and that you still enjoy the feelings you get around that

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  • robbieforgotpw

    I love a good powerdump

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  • JadedByTheNorm

    Given your situation, it is normal. When you are in the chat rooms, you are able to enjoy the concept of sexual pleasure with a guy while still enjoying the feeling of security that the only way he could hurt you is by sending you a virus on the computer or typing something hurtful to you as opposed to having an opportunity to engage in domestic violence with you.

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  • God knows i dont!

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  • BoredGuy

    69% think that not liking sex is normal? Then how the fuck we are overpopulating this fcking planet!?!?

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  • TheGirlInTheGreenScarf

    You're doing it wrong.

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  • WhoKnowsMyName

    It's quite normal coming from that kind of relationship, also, you may find if you find someone else you really like, it could be different, considering he/she (I don't know how you roll) treats you.

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  • zundervall

    Hmm Ida know. Sounds like you're a potential abuse magnet. We certainly don't know how you got into an abusive relationship, but I bet what you're doing now is a great way to get into another one. Please be careful.

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  • Johnyboy.. Go fuck yo self.I didnt do it while i was with him and wouldnt if i was in a relationship.

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  • Ramit10

    Normal, get a hold of me we will talk ;)

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  • AlixMariee.

    You're stupid (x

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  • JohnyBoyButImNotJohn

    I think your a bitch if you did it when you had a bf. And if you do it when you find a new bf you are an even bigger bitch. damn, being a whore online is just.. Whorish. i dont underatand people who do it omg you make me sick.

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