Is it normal to not like "pretty" women in general

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Lets first start off by saying I'm not a homosexual because that's just not me no offense to any gay/lesbian couples out there it just not my thing. Now I can talk to women and its easy for me to think ones cute and whatnot but everytime I have a pretty woman or what qualifies as pretty for me which is not a very high expectation to begin with talks to me I start to get this thought gnawing at the back of my head which just boils down too "leave me the fuck alone". I can't explain it because I didn't have a bad experience with a woman never had a pretty lady reject me or anything like that when I was younger it just happened and when I talk to my guy friends I don't get that thought but my real question is and though I feel I might know what the answer is let me know. IIN

P.S. if anyone has genuine advice on this other than dumb remarks like I should marry an "ugly" girl or any other comments like that would be appreciated.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Umm, I'm not sure I understand what you mean, but maybe if I explain my personal experience, you might notice something similar in the way I see things...

    Before I was married, I used to go on a lot of dates (no sex, just dates) with friends, coworkers, and even strangers. More often than not, it seemed to me like the better looking they were or the more value they put into their appearance, the more they were lacking in qualities I appreciate; like self-awareness, empathy, humour, social-knowledge etc. Quite often they would even be arrogant about their looks, which was such a turn-off.

    I'd usually end up having crushes on men who were considered "ugly" by my friends but, to me, they were extremely attractive because they were interesting to be around and have a conversation with. And, they also had a healthy level of confidence in themselves. They had a sexy mind!

    Good looks can be exciting at first but, after a while, if a person's personality is lacking, they become 'ugly' very quickly.

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    • matthewkoehler
      7 years ago

      There is scientific research indicating that women are more attracted to the "overall" package and take many different factors into consideration when dating as compared to men, so your comment makes perfect sense to me.

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  • Freedom_
    10 years ago

    Women are conniving. Especially pretty ones. They think they can use their looks to take advantage of you. Is that what's going on?

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