Is it normal to not like people ?

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I've always been quiet and I've never really known who I am, I don't know if it's social aniexity or just who I am.. I've never had a lot of friends and I've always tried to make them but it's so hard for me as I'm quiet. I have a couple of friends and I go out with my cousin and a group of people which is nice, and I go out with other family, but other things I do on my own a lot, or have a lot of nights in, but is it normal? I've tried groups and classes and it just doesn't work for me, I'm a lot better talkin one on one I just big groups fear me.
My parents have never understood who I am which leads me to wonder, my mum has tried to push me into things and push me into boys that I don't like and it's damaged me a bit. My mum wanted me
To try this group so I did, didn't like it, then my step brother tried to get me into this other thing and I didn't like it, now someone who my brother works with has messaged me about the first group again, and I feel awful cause I should want to do it?? But I really don't want to yet I want friends ? I'm so weird and I don't even know who I am.
I'm just sick of people trying to run my life but yet I'm so unsure,
Doing what I'm happy doing may lead to a shit future like having no friends or no boyfriend and it might not make me stronger.

Any advice welcome :)

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Based on 26 votes (19 yes)
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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    8 years ago

    Trust me, you're the most normal person I know :)

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    • kingofcarrotflowers
      8 years ago

      It's like you're someone who has an idea of what they want and how to be comfortable in your own skin but then you feel you have to change that based on what those around you want, the constant pressure and stress from you're mum seems to have made you second guess everything, and you know what? Don't fucking listen to her, everything you've said she's done or thing she's pressured you into doing sounds like bullshit purely to make her happy

      Live in the moment, so many people myself included hate their own company a lot of the time, to enjoy it is a good thing, there's no need to always think ahead like you do over things like this, live how you want to live now, and if how you want to live changes, then change it in the future, someone as nice as you would have no problem finding anyone or making friends if not for this fear you have and that's the first step

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