Is it normal to not like guys who aren't "manly"?

I think it is really unattractive when a guy shares feelings, or acts all lovey, or anything like that. I think guys shouldn't care about anything. Is that normal?

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Based on 71 votes (32 yes)
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  • zEropoint

    I hope you enjoy domestic violence, because the kind of man who can't accept his own nurturing and caring "female" qualities is the kind of man who will beat the hell out of you and your children. Someone who "doesn't care about anything" doesn't care about you either.

    But I totally understand not wanting to fuck any more of those hairless, woman-breasted, no testosterone having lumps of fat bitch. Every woman who fucks one of those things is de-evolving the species. My man is big and hairy and well defined and all the things you could want in a real man... but he has feelings and all that stuff, too. He's a fully integrated human being, but he's still a man, you know?

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  • Nope, not normal. My boyfriend IS like that, for example, and I wouldn't have it any other way. Plain and simple. I hate guys who have the need to act so manly. Men are people, just like women. They have emotions too. It's too bad they can't feel more free to express them, and it's because of this really.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    Not normal, open your eyes and realize you're denying someone the human feeling of emotion, think on that, and then think on why society tells men to be manly and girls to be feminine. It's all just another form of social control, and the sheep continue to buy into it...

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  • lewlew80

    Everyone should be able to express emotion, gender is not impt

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  • I must be the most unattractive man on earth then, fml. I loved telling my ex girlfriend how she made me feel, I loved making her feel special, loved listening to every little thing she had to say. Shared my feelings with her. She was the only one who could bring tears to my eyes. Anyways all to say that we shouldn't be that stereo type of ''men don't give a shit about anything''. It's all your opinion though, like this is mine.

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  • Blackwargreymon

    Think it is very normal, because it is just a preference.

    Like I feel that you are not a real man without sporting your manly beard:D (Like 'The Beards' sing 'if your father doesn't have a beard, then you've got two mums'.)

    (Disclaimer: I do like beards, a man with a good beard, long hair...nice. But the previous statement was a bit of reductio ad absurdum.)

    Still I feel men uncapable of expressing/acknowledging their feelings usual are not strong enough to handle them. (For many different reasons.) Not taking men like me into account, who's systematic analysis of the world have left them without any actual emotion. (Feel free to date one of those men, who will disagree/'fight' you whenever an inefficient decision is made based on the slightest bit of human emotion and forget you the second you are out of sight, because without emotional bonding there is nothing keeping you in their existence, when you are not around. (Yes, I feel sorry for my gf.))

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  • DhGlory

    I was brought with a rule hanging over my head as a male in my family, neither my father nor my grandfather and probably his father before him showed much emotion. Saying I love you had to mean something to the men in my family and as such it was rarely said to me or my sister by my father or my grandfather. Needless to say we do love each other immensely and are a happy family but we don't typically show our love verbally. I've grown up without having the need to spill my every thought or feeling and am very proud of that fact, love is a fickle term and passed around all too readily in today's world, I only say it when I mean it truthfully.

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  • Jessie735513

    I like girly guys xD

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  • iammeiam

    Oh my god. Thank god!! Have you realized that the world I being over populated by skinny boys with long hair??? What happened to being tough and having some muscle mass?? The crying thing is rediculous!! Only time my man cried is when someone dies, when his child was born and when he was a kid. I love it. Real men are great!!

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  • No. There needs to be some bit of loving nature in a guy. I mean no one wants a wuss for a boyfriend but there is a difference between being a loving manly man and being a wuss

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  • BOYracer88

    yea you want a man not a little-pussy-bitch-boy perfectly normal x

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  • lmn

    Lol. I 2nd that Darwin. Emphatically.

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  • Gidget

    there is a fine line between expressing yourself and being a little bitch agreed i wouldnt want my man to be a closed book but i wouldnt want him to be an open book either it is appropriate for a man to show emotions on certain ocassions

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  • darwinswaitingroom

    There is nothing wrong with a man communicating how he feels about something. However there is a fine line between expressing himself and being a little bitch.

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  • ande

    Hell yes! I'm the same way :) I need em big buff and tuff

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  • sir.kirk

    Very normal, that's the way guys should act

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