Is it normal to not like anal stuff?

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My boyfriend loves my ass. My pussy too, but he tried to finger my ass again last week and it just doesn't turn me on. It's turns me on when he grabs my ass cheeks, just not when he fingers it. Also, I'm pretty sure he wants me to finger his ass. I'm pretty sure it's cuz they have prostates and the only way to stimulate it is to finger their ass but I still don't want to. I strongly believe in tradition relationships and all that and some things that appeal to my friends, don't appeal to me cuz it's not traditional and it doesn't make sense. So maybe this is the same thing. It just doesn't seem right when I think about it. Please help!!! :) thanks!!

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  • Darkoil
    13 years ago

    Not traditional and degrading? Please if both the man and women in the relationship want to try it then i don't see what the problem is, explore and enjoy each others bodies, my ex girlfriend loved it when i would tease and play with her ass, try a small anal dildo first with a lot of lube and then work your way up, but only if you want to, don't let your boyfriend talk you into something you don't want to do.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    he must be a bit gay and hes hiding it from you

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Well Vampgirl, you see the Prostate is a great source of pleasure for men... It's fine if you don't like it but don't bring homosexuality into it where it isn't relevant to the context of this topic.

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    Vampgirl it hurt you because you didnt want to. Its the same thing with your vagina, it will hurt if you don't want.

    Anal sex is great if both partners want to do it. Tell him you don't like it, if he's not an ass he'll understand

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    I can relate.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    She's not saying the ass fingering is a traditional thing, she's saying that's why she doesn't like it, because it's not a traditional thing.

    Just talk to your man and tell him, I'm sure if he cares about you, he will understand because he would want you to get pleasure and not something you don't like.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    That's pretty much what she said.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ** if NOT it's not traditional

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  • bleach_baby
    13 years ago

    Ewwww I would super not like to finger a guys ass

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  • Vampgirl
    13 years ago

    I feel the same way, I hate anal sex and I think its degrading to women! If a guy wants anal sex then why doesn't he just find a gay guy and do it? I'm a woman and I have a perfectly designed hole for where he can stick it! And FYI it fucking hurts and I feel that sex should always be enjoyable, fun and pleasing to both partners NOT JUST ONE! Talk to him and tell him how you feel, I talked to my hubby and he said he thought I liked it that's why he kept on doing it cause I said nothing - sometimes honesty is the best policy!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Fingering each other or anal sex or any other type aside from vaginal is not "traditional" think about this, would your great grandmother do it? If it's not traditional.

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