Is it normal to not like a guy...
...and then like them later on? I'm a junior in high school and back in December 2010, a guy in my band class asked me (actually it was his friends) if I liked him and I said no. It wasnt like I had anything against him, it was just that I didn't really know him so my mind immediately went to a no. Over time I started to feel guilty and had a bit of a "sympathetic infatuation" for him. Then I started to not care about the way he looked and fell in love (well, in like anyways) with his personality, his abilities and even small things like his laugh. So now I really like him but I'm too embarrassed and timid to tell him (or even his friends). I'm afraid that he's moved on. He's a senior too so he's leaving next week. It's sorta sad. But, is it normal to think this way? Should I tell him or just leave it alone?