Is it normal to not know who you are?

Well, I like hanging out with my girly girl friends but I also like hanging out with some guys an try to fit in with them what should be girly girl or tomboy? Can I be both ? HELP

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Based on 52 votes (43 yes)
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  • LucyRicardo

    I was the same way except mine dealt with the type of people I hung out with. In high school I was a total skater and my best friend was 100% "hick". Everybody wondered why we were friends at all. It's normal and a lifelong ordeal for most people.

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  • Mormodes

    Completely normal. Welcome to the mystery of life.

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  • Tenorsax69er

    I'm totally the same way. I grew up being a tomboy and would really only have guy friends. Within the last 8 years or so I've started to change myself and got some girl friends and now I even go out shopping and stuff. I still love hanging out with my guy friends. It's totally normal and i think you can do/be both. I hate some of the bitchiness and complexities and drama of women that men just don't have so ya you're definitely good. We get the best of both worlds :D

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  • anonymousss

    Why ask black or white when you can be gray or whatever color u want?be yourself around anybody and stop thinking who you're tryin to be.

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  • jrphotographer

    Guy friends are so much fun and easy to be around but I can't talk to them about girl stuff. And theres a lotta drama with other girls but its awkward to talk about guy with guys so..idk :)

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  • TheConsciousElectron

    don't sweat it. you will naturally be more feminine around your girls and more like a tomboy around your guys. You merely have different sides to your personality and that's perfectly okay

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  • coolperson123

    Thank you (;

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  • xemzybaby10x

    Don't try to be what your not, just be yourself, you will find out who that is when you start doing this, say things that cross your mind when you think them and in a few months you will discover yourself.

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  • greengiant111

    Lesbo?

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