Is it normal to not know where you stand

If you carry on like this you'll be a doormat for the rest of your days.

She's being damned selfish. Is it possible that she just doesn't know how you feel about her or that she doesn't know you're starting to get annoyed with paying for everything? She should know, but not everyone was raised right, and a few misguided women still think it's the man's job to pay for everything (NB: I'm a woman and am not being sexist when I say that attitude sucks).

Sit down and have a long talk with her. FWB doesn't always work the way it's supposed to, and sometimes it's best to let a friendship die if it doesn't grow into something more.

By the way, it is a little disturbing that you "wouldn't do all this just for a friend." That's edging really close to "If I buy her enough stuff, she'll become emotionally attached/be my girlfriend/whatever." You can't give people physical things with expectations of sexual or emotional repayment. It's not a healthy mindset.

Using you

But she sleeps with you? They have a name for that and it starts with letter p. you're actually lucky coz you're getting away for a cheap price.

You're openly being a sucker, you can get all of that from women without giving them a dime. Conning a woman is not hard as they aren't sharp like that, not wise to manipulation. I've been with quite a few women and they were all more or less the same when it comes to sex, love and money type issues.

It wouldn't be a "mans world" if they had a clue, would it now?

If she swallows, what's the problem. Sounds like a great mate come fuck buddy. He she's a dead root and fucking her is a chore, pass her on to another mate less fortunate.

Talk to her about it or it'll stay the same. Think about if this "relationship" means anything to you. If not, tell her you're done.

She probably doesn't see you as "serious relationship material", but still enjoys spending time with you for now (and not to mention the free rides/meals).

There's nothing wrong with doing this if you're okay with that kind of relationship, but I would not get too attached. It's definitely a temporary thing - don't ever expect any kind of commitment. She's looking for someone else and you should be too.

You should probably stop spending money and time on her without any consideration...

Sure, meeting someone and inviting them to a drink on you is a generous thing to do and mayhaps a good start to a relationship (even better if they insist to pay for themselves, imo). To do this consistently with one and the same person, without any reciprocity, will probably get you used. And to think that such monetary favours will result in emotional attachment is incredibly foolish.

I would stop doing things for her. If she isn't paying you back what youre loaning her then you are being an idiot for continuing to give her money.
Even when Ive been in relationships I always expected them to pay back any loaned money.

She is using you man, I have had "friends" like this in the past, just slowly disassociate yourself from her tell her ur busy, then eventually stop hangin out u don't need a freeloader.

Oll Korrect, isn't.

Why can't I go one day without hearing or reading this dreadful word?

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Okay