Is it normal to not know if your bi?

The theory goes that most people fall somewhere in the middle on a scale between straight and gay, and according to the person who pioneered this theory (Kinsey), nobody is completely one or the other.

So it's totally normal to be confused and unsure about yourself, especially since society puts a great deal of pressure on us all to be completely straight from the day we're born.

Sounds like you kissed a girl and you liked it, the taste of her cherry chapstick ;)

It's worth trying. I did, and I realized that I will never try that again. It was kind of gross; but if I hadn't, I'd still be wondering what it was like. It's the not knowing what sleeping with girls is like that is so exciting. Go for it.

Very cute. I think you should go for her :)

Gee your young and feeling sexually attracted to another female, cool have at it. I think try it if you like it try it again. Life is actually really short, have fun and enjoy. Also if you play with another women’s body, like her vagina and you are turned on by it does not mean you are automatically a lesbian. It is a bit more involved then that, you’ll know in time? You might like both, you might like one over the other, and you might join a convent and become a nun? Do not worry about it, experience your feelings and remember one thing. What you feel & how you feel about it that counts, this is what truly matters, everyone else is just expressing their own understanding and some haven’t even had any experience in the subject matter, yet offer advice. Me? I love Lesbians; actually have had some really good friends who were lesbians, the fact we experienced our mutual desires doesn’t mean I’m a lesbian or she is now bi, it only means we had fun and wow was she ever fun naked. Lucky me.

Being bi doesn't mean you are attracted to all women. You ARE attracted to this one girl though...that's called being bisexual. Nothing wrong with it... totally normal.

Hmm. Sounds like you just may be curious. It happens with us women. We are curious as to what it would be like.

I kinda feel the same way about my best friend...but she is 25 and I am 14. I want to kiss her but i cant bcc she is married and has 4 kids it would be wrong!

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I had a feeling I was bi before, so I obviously told my bestfriend and she told me to just try it out. Well, I didn't and just asked one of my friends that was bi, and she told me to answer this question: "If you were a guy, who would you want to have sex with?" And I couldn't answer the question so yeah, not bi. XD Anyway, it's the easiest question ever, and I bet most people will be able to answer it, and if you can, just try it out.. A little experience couldn't hurt :P And maybe you should tell your bestfriend, not directly though as it may go totally wrong! Just like ask her stuff, like, how she figured she was bi or something.. Just keep bringing up the subject, maybe ask her "what if"s. Then maybe you can figure out what you really feel towards her, or maybe what she might be feeling towards you.. Or if she wants to try it out, or not at all... You never know.. :)

of course its normal! definitely tell her how you feel and see what happens. it could be the best decision of your life :)

Go ahead and chk things out. It won't hurt no one as long as it mutial. as long as your friends it does not matter its natural to be curious about the taboo prt of life.

Ok thats totally normal, When I was in highschool there where these girls that went together they each had boyfriends but they always had sleepovers on the weekends and always took baths together and toucht each other, they said that they where never bi just having a fun time, Thats how you should see it, because if you dont have fun in this short life who will do it for you.

Ok I don't think it is weird I do the same thing with my best friend!. She is bi too and I don't care shes my friend and hats all that matters. Im NOT bi and I'm single & love boys! But this is normal? :)

Well the same happened tome but she wasstraight. And she toldme to kiss her so i did ;)