Is it normal to not know if you like someone

I have this guy in my class that isn't tht bad looking but he's really weird and quiet I think I like him but I'm not so sure!! I had a dream about him and in my dream I had a crush on him and people knew and they teased me! I read that if you dream about liking someone you sub conciusily really do. I don't know if I do! When I think about him I got butterflies and smile and I defend him when my friends talk about him but my friends said they would pray for me and another one said I can see you falling for him! Do I like him? I don't know and what should I do! Comment and help me out?! With suggestions

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Comments ( 22 )
  • mysterymen3000

    How do you not know? Are you 12? Lay off the Disney channel

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    • Lovelybone01

      i don't undersatand how you don't know..<BR>no one can tell you if you like someone <BR>you have to lnow

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    • Japande

      YES!! post won! Thread over

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    • someoneawesome

      What's up with u and Disney!

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  • PapzBSlim

    Not surprised this was posted by a girl since I feel most girls do not know what they want. This is obvious, though. You like him and it should not matter what your friends think. If they know he has some kind of std or is an abusive person, then take that into consideration. This does not seem to be the case where he is a person who will hurt you. Give him a hint here and there. If he does not notice, because a lot of us guys don't, just be straight forward with him.

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    • Yeah I am a girl! What kind of hints!

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      • PapzBSlim

        For instance, if he does something you consider to be cute, tell him that it is cute or that he is cute. Maybe compliment his haircut or his clothing. I would tell you to say to him you had a dream about him but if you never really speak to him, it may be a bit weird. I do applaud that you are not the average girl waiting on the guy to make a move.

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        • someoneawesome

          I compliment his sports skills him and made him know i had noticed his haircut And lately whenever he got a shot in in basketball I'd be like good job or when he announced he's finished something I'm like I'm proud! Or of he gets a good serve! But the issue is I'm not sure if he likes me back cause he usually just smiles or put a thumbs up! When we play volleyball as a group with my friends he always come and spikes the ball really hard so that it hits one of them! (Teasingly) But he's never done it to me! He always just passes it normally to me. And last time I thought he was gonna do it and I tried to like cover my head and get the ball before he does but he just picked it up and gave it to me and said, I wouldn't hit you. Lol it's a lot but what do I do!? An yeah I don't got time for someone else to make a move;) also ! His firend was tryna guess who I liked and he guessed a few people then guessed him and I'm like nope but he kept saying it was and was determined it was him even though there were plenty of other guys and I had said the exact same thing about everyone else he guessed! Does that mean anything

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          • PapzBSlim

            Lol the story is cute. The only option I see left is to be direct with him. Tell him you would like to go out one night with him and if he would join you. There is nothing to lose here except an opportunity to see what could have happened. Good luck with this and keep us posted.

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            • someoneawesome

              Ah! KK lol I though there may be a easier way then being direct! I'm shy lol!!! Well do u think he likes my friend more

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  • Shackleford96

    Of course you like him. That's why you posted this. Screw what your friends say, if you don't take the opportunity when you get it you will regret it for the rest of your life.

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  • Elliemental

    Did you go for it? You snooze you lose!

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  • NormalIsOverratedBeANinja

    Simple test: When you walk away from him, does something make you feel like you shouldn't be? If so, you like him. Everything you've described so far sounds like you do, though.

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  • normalhuman

    You sure do like him. Maybe you're still in denial? Just accept your feelings. Don't hold back anything, then you'll realize what puzzle piece you've been missing. :)

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  • Terence_the_viking

    I dunno maybe you need to ask John.

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    • Who's john

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      • Terence_the_viking

        You know the website askjohn.com

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