Is it normal to not know if it's love or obsession?

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I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now , I have been in long term relationships before him & I have never felt this way before. Every time he drops me off at home I just start to get sad and depressed when he's not with me I just feel depressed , when me and him argue I don't even want to eat and no one can make me feel better but him. If me and him argue my entire stomach turns and twists when he says he can't see me today I start getting upset than mad is this normal? Is this love or obsession?

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65% Normal
Based on 23 votes (15 yes)
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  • Thatguy777
    9 years ago

    RoseIsabella is right, this is how I chased away my first love. I couldn't help being obsessed with her. The whole thing was crazy. I wish I handled everything differently with her because I still miss her.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    It's obsession.

    There are a lot of types of love. Personally I might not be the best to assist this because I do not understand most types but I see it more simply.

    If you "need" to be around someone, that is obsession as well as unhealthy.

    In my opinion most peoples relationships are needy and dependent. I do not understand why people put themselves through that. People should work on themselves.

    If you really want a relationship the only way it actually works is when both people want the same things.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    I vote for obsession and fear of abandonment.

    Okay kids, this is how to chase a sweetheart away. No one likes to feel trapped. Don't let this obsession of yours control you or he'll be asking for "space" and who could blame him.

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  • donotmockme
    9 years ago

    You're not yet stable hun, I would not continue this relationship at all. Please pray to God and read your bible every day.

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