Is it normal to not know if i'm bi, straight, or lesbian?

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Okay so I'm teenager and a girl. I haven't really questioned whether I'm bi or what until this past school year. I have a best friend and we share everything with each other. So over the school year, our friendship grew and we were really close, closer than with any other friend I've had before. We call each other sisters because that's how close we are. We started with just sitting close to each other and holding hands, then we started playing with each other, and lastly, we now make out.
She just told me that she has has strong feelings towards me. More freelings than with anyone she's ever dated before. I don't find this weird and I don't think of her any differently now.
I have been questioning whether or not we're more than friends or sisters because I dont know of any sisters doing this stuff. I feel like I have feelings for her but I'm not 100% sure...I'm okay with liking her though, I just don't know if it's wrong or not. That's why I don't know for sure. Is it normal to not know? What should I do?

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    If you like her then like her, its not wrong. Follow you heart and decide with your mind. One time in high school I watched Dirty Dancing and thought I was gay. Stupid sexy patrick swayze.

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    • Cstranger03
      12 years ago

      Haha well thanks for commenting. I've just been really confused lately and I want to like her but I know my parents won't approve. Shes my best friend and we get along really well. I've never felt like this with anyone else. I'm just so confused...

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  • Brad07305
    12 years ago

    Like they say, don't worry about labels. You might experiment with her for a while and then meet a guy you want to go with. (And most guys won't mind you being with another girl.) Better to experiment now instead of not and wishing you had.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    It's not wrong to have those feelings. Try it out and see what happens. Instead of just sisters...you could be scissor siters! snip snip

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