Is it normal to not know how to kiss?

Ok i had this boyfriend and we took things slow. i didnt know how to kiss but my friends kept sayin it was natural. so when the day came it was just him and me alone. he made the first move but i freaked out and moved alittle and he acccidently kissed my chin! i said sorry and just made an excuse of not kissing him.please help me and dont laugh because this is so embarassing. GIVE ME TIPS ON HOW TO KISS! (IM DESPERATE) :(

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  • heckyea10

    You don't need tips, you need experience. Kissing is not a big deal. Tell him you've never kissed a guy, so if you suck, you have an excuse. Next time, don't turn away! You'll get better with time.

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  • littleeshee

    Totally agree with k9317 your first kiss will make u dizzy and highish but it's amazing... Just go 4 it

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  • missclueless

    i was the same way. the first time i kissed my [now ex] boyfriend it was dark, i didnt know what i was doing, and i totally missed. its normal. andi aggree with heckyea10, you need experience, somethin i dont have. i agree with just about everything they said ;)

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  • misskitty6

    I know it sounds lame but practice on your hand. :) That's what I did when I was younger and it worked! And be sure to wear lots of chapstick and have nice soft lips all the time- if you do- guys will be so distracted by your soft lips they'll be kissing YOU and you can just follow their lead- match the movement of their lips with yours, pull away when they do, lean in when they do, you get the idea, just read their body language and adjust yourself to what theyre doing. PS- MANY guys are terrible kissers, and if they try to stick their tongues down your throat- or lick your whole face- it's because THEY are bad at kissing. Don't feel like you are doing anything wrong. And if they have a big mouth and accidentally cover your nostrils with their upper lip, its ok to pull away and catch your breath- you can even tell them not to be so aggressive, kissing should be fun not scary!

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  • knightowl

    it's normal babe and don't worry so. figuring some of this stuff out is part of the fun of growing up. u'll learn what he likes and how to do it, he'll do the same just relax and have fun there is no such thing as normal

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  • Decoder7

    Just be natural and you will learn

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  • fdmcerberus

    Just get in there and do it. That's how most people learn. As long as you don't bite anything off consider it a success.

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  • k9317

    The first boy i kissed was in school with everyone around so there was pressure there.. to be alone is best.. relax and enjoy it! the first kiss is so different from the kisses you will have after.. just let it happen.. its somthing to enjoy.. :)

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  • Monster93

    Honestly your bf will prob like it more knowing he'll be your first time kissing you, so tell him gurll

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  • sandrinka

    Guys can't tell if you're a bad kisser so don't worry about it and if you keep on doing it then you'll feel more comfortable :)

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  • Pisslan616

    I have been told that kissing is like an in built instinct. Apparently everyone is born with the knowledge of how to kiss.

    I dont know how true this is because ive never kissed anyone but maybe its something to research.

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  • Thinglike

    Act aukward, inexperienced shy and nervous. Because you're going to be, so you may as well make it look like it's on perpose.
    Yes, I stole it off Doctor Who, but it's still good advise .

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  • Latenightbruce

    RELAX!!!!!! It does come natural just let it happen. No expectations just enjoy careful of what you eat that can be a deal breaker. lol

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  • TweetyGirl

    Okay go on YouTube and search how to kiss. Can't go wrong

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