Is it normal to not know how to have sex?

it's like i know the theory of it, but it's like i wouldn't know how to react in that situation. it'll seem so weird and i would be thinking, erm...ok what am i suppose to do next? and sometimes i feel like it's disgusting or obscene...the 'doing it' part, but i think it's totally ok with foreplay and such. is that normal? i'm female if that helps....

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  • To the interwebs!

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  • jessicia16

    just do what makes guys happy,,, if you dont know ask your gf's ... its easy

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  • It's normal. The first time I had sex my gf and I were both virgins and we both were learning. My second girlfriend was a virgin as well but read romance novels so she knew a little but still things were fine because she told me.

    As long as you tell who you're planning to sleep with that you don't know what to do (and that's okay!) then I can't see things ending badly.

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  • stikyfangers

    Savor the attraction to the other person. Stop obsessing over it. I guarantee it will come naturally due to your attraction/desire for your mate

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