Is it normal to not know how to get out of the friend zone?

I like this girl but I can't seem to get out of the friend zone. Does anyone else have this problem? It's like every girl that I get interested in just wants to be friends! I hate it! Is this normal?

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86% Normal
Based on 59 votes (51 yes)
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  • Be honest with her. Women are different than men are and being friends with a guy means different things to women than it does to us. So, to solve it, BE HONEST AND TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL. Most importantly, TELL HER THAT YOU HAVE FEELING FOR HER.

    Also, do something different that seperates you from the pact. Things like dress better, clean yourself up, speak better, things like that.

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    • I am engaged to my best friend though so those relationships are better. I am truly happy this time out instead of the last two that was based on loneliness or a hot asian/black hybrid girl.

      I'm truly happy with my best friend. Remember, the only difference between your best girl AS A friend and a girlfriend is sex.

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  • dragonflyfli

    I notice that most guys who are stuck in the "friend zone" fall in love with every girl that they become friends with and have to plan the shit out instead of just being themselves and letting life take them where it will take them. gosh!

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  • cuddlenef25

    I know this same feeling im in the "Friend zone" with every chick i've known or met its annoying as shit no one should ever be in this God awful place called the "Friend zone"

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  • extis

    yerh i do i think it because shes a really gd friend of mine and i dnt want to go out with her because if we break up not only would i lose my gf friend but i will also lose a really good friend awkward

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  • Alaxett

    This will work, it make jealous girls wonder what's so great about you that you already have a girlfriend. It's a phenomenon, really, but what will happen is either your friends will try to win over you if they have any slightly interest in you, or you will end up fall in love with a girl you're with and forget about other girls. Who know?

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  • The reason is probably as simple as the girl just isn't attracted to you. Anyway, there are many, many guys who have had and are still having trouble with being in the "friend zone". It amazes me why people bother chasing people who have no romantic interest in them. You found out she doesn't like you back. Cool. Now try leaving her alone and moving on?

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    • face_grinder11

      I guess I've known her for so long, She thought of me as a brother of sorts... That's why I backed off in the first place. It was hard, but I didn't want to chase a girl that would never actually love me back. I was better off I guess. Time to move on. fuck. I am out of practice. That's for fucking sure.

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  • You are going to have to be more direct about your romantic interest. But if they are not, and just want to be your friend, then leave it there. Also, try asking someone out on a date who isn't in the friendship category.

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  • face_grinder11

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