Is it normal to not know his address after 9 months?

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I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and I have no idea where he lives he won't show me his house and he won't tell me where he lives everytime I ask he says his mom doesn't want visitors! And that's fine I don't have to go in, couldn't he just drive by and be like that's my house? I love him So much and I have let this slip for awhile cuz it really bothers me! he comes over to my place pretty much every day and he can't even show me where he lives! Is this normal after 9 months?

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    maybe by "mum" he means "wife with kids".

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    His mother sits dead in a rocking chair in the house up the hill from his family motel.

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    • helenjewett
      13 years ago

      norman bates. yikes.

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  • HSVWHO
    13 years ago

    ^ I was thinking that,

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  • starsapphire
    13 years ago

    May b he is actually married with kids and living a double life with you. You not knowing is not normal at all and for you to go this long is nuts

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    I don't think it's normal that after a whole 9 month's you still haven't seen where he lives. Maybe he's hiding something. Maybe his house isn't as nice as your house might be, and he feel's a little embarrassed to show you. Maybe his family is on the rock's, and they argue, and fight a lot.

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89
    13 years ago

    Maybe he's homeless =(

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Yeah, he probably lives in a Chevy astro on the side of some logging trail or something.

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  • wreckd
    13 years ago

    Maybe they don't have a lot of money and he's embarassed...? I wouldn't push it. He'll tell you when he's ready.

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  • NotNearNormal
    12 years ago

    Umm.. No. I had a GF for almost a year and never learned her address but thats completely different.. I'd been to her house and could drive there with my eyes closed I just didn't know the actual address

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Chicka it means hes hiding something and i agree with ^ its prob wife and kids sorry hun

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