Is it normal to not kiss much in a romantic relationship?

I've only had two long term relationships, in my first there was a lot of kissing, I enjoyed it, we'd make out every time we hung out.
I'm living with my second boyfriend, I didn't live with the first, and we hardly kiss...
I have trouble counting more than five times and even there it was just for a minute, I've brought it up before, he doesn't see what the big deal is and says it should be 50/ 50 because I never lean in, or initiate hugs... I don't lean in, I expect him to... is that odd?

Yes 9
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depends on the relationship 17
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  • myownopinions

    If you really want to kiss then you should be the one initiating it. After a while, your boyfriend should respond in kind, but maybe he isn't the touch-feely type. It all depends on the relationship.

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  • Just_feed_me_Troll_Meat

    What you need to be worried about is keeping the place nice and clean, making sure his shirts are washed and ironed and dinner is on the table when he is hungry. Not some candy ass cuddling and kissing like a bunch of queers.

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