Is it normal to not identify to a sexuality?

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is it weird that i dont want to identify as one sexuality? like i've always assumed i was straight but then i started having feelings for my female bestfriend, and then other females. and now some people are like "oh so now you're bisexual?" and idk why that bothers me.
i dont want to be called "straight" or "bisexual" or "lesbian. idk why but it makes me uncomfortable. if i have feelings for someone, then i have feelings for them. i dont like suddenly being labeled for having feelings? its so strange to me, is it normal to having thoughts like this, or do other people feel the same? i dont knowww

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Based on 45 votes (32 yes)
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  • Gspyder
    7 years ago

    I feel you. Bi/bicurious/anything lgbt has so much weight attached to the label id just rather like what I like and not worry about what to call it.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    That is 100% normal and you're not the only one: I don't identify as straight or bi or lesbian either because such labels are unnecessary and restricting and I'd rather see myself as pansexual

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    • Anonnet
      7 years ago

      Isn't "pansexual" also a label?

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  • richardgerecameinmyass
    7 years ago

    Enough with this gender fluid and sexuality fluid bullshit.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      Why do you say it's bullshit? Because you're very rigid sexually?

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      • richardgerecameinmyass
        7 years ago

        No. I am not a homophobe or transphobe...in the United states every day lately on the news all we see are stories about schools and other businesses letting men use womens bathrooms and women use mens bathrooms to cater to gender fluid
        People. It is to be more politically
        correct. It is shoved down our throats

        by the media everyday and I am sick of it. I honestly do not care about who
        uses what bathroom..but I am tired of this national debate and I do not know why it has become such a big deal all
        of the sudden out of the blue.

        Right now in the united states it is okay for a man to use a womens bathroom if he so chooses because we have to catervto his roghts to call himself a woman...now we have men abusing this by going into womens bathrooms and perving on the females and their children. Politically correctness in this country has gone too far and it is starting become somewhat dangerous.

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  • Anonnet
    7 years ago

    I don't really understand, since I don't think labels are a problem. Labels aren't inherently bad things that you need to avoid, hence I think you're being somewhat irrational.

    I also think most of the Yes votes on this are based on trying to support you, or the idea of fluid sexuality, rather than them thinking this is actually normal. After all, if you ask the vast majority of people, even those on this site, they will state their sexuality in no uncertain terms. Not identifying with a sexuality isn't common.

    This comment is just begging for downvotes but, seriously, I'm just not buying this at all. I'm sorry.

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    • carastarr
      7 years ago

      what... i literally don't know what you're going on about, you seem mad for some reason, go have a drink.

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  • Ipooprainbows
    7 years ago

    Totally understand! I feel I'm in the same boat

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  • Carlton03
    7 years ago

    Wtf is pansexual?

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    • LittleLeafff
      7 years ago

      Attraction to pans

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      Sexuality without restriction on who I'm attracted to: what's so hard to understand?

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      • Carlton03
        7 years ago

        Alright no need to be a bitch!!!!!!! I didn't know what it meant

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  • Carlton03
    7 years ago

    Maybe you are bi-sexual, just saying, I also think
    About performing oral sex on guys, like if they are handsome or have a "good looking dick" but also am really attracted to girls if they have a ripping body like really firm breasts nicely shaped and I have a feeling I am possibly bi, so yeah maybe consider this possibility? I'm happy keep
    Replying should you need to chat :-)

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