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I'm 35,STRAIGHT and never had a girlfriend but I've had multiple one-night stand affairs with prostitutes before, what is it in me that's preventing me to date somebody?
Never shagged a whore in my life.Take me!Take me!
Why should you bother to court a girl if you can get what you want by simply paying a hooker?
Courtship is a skill like all the other ones.
You go to work on it.It's not something you get born with.And the only way to learn this skill,is doing it.Many times.Trial and error.
But I'm sure you would just,try once,fail,then go to the hooker.And that's fine.But it prevents you from planning out boarding strategies.For some other people it's merely a matter of "attraction".But some men who get what they want,sex,usually cease caring about their self image as much as necessary.Because they don't really feel like they need to score anymore.It might be your case.Or you probably never even got started.You know,placing yourself in front of a mirror?Checking for pimples and asking your friends if you look good and all that crap?Working on your style and what not?It works this way.. you see a girl.. a nice girl.. a girl you like.And who could do what the hooker does,for free.Well maybe not exactly what she does,and not exactly for free,but still.You analyze her behavior.Which guys she looks more attracted by.And find out what type of guy she likes best.From tell tale signs.If they act all flirty and shit like that,it means they like the dude.Then you evaluate your chances of fitting her wishes.Changing your attitude and clothes,to resemble the guy you think she likes.Yeah,I know,sounds like a waste of time.
After you are done,you approach her.Offer her a drink,talk about random stuff,let them talk,they love talking for hours about nothing,make remarks about the color of her eyes,the smell of her hair,make it clear you think she is hot.And jokes,if you can make them laugh,you are half way through.Unless she is an emo,then it's all kind of a different game.
You must have been able to catch my drift by now.It's not about what's in you,it's about what you ain't got in you.You are not exactly a latin lover dude.Use your brain instead of your wallet.Well,maybe both.Have a wonderful time!
Erm, a history of Shagging whores? I mean, I wouldn't go with a bloke who had been within 50 yards of one......