Is it normal to not have sex even after 1 year to the relationship

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I do like him alot, he is very supportive, understanding and most importantly a loyal boyfriend..but I still am not comfortable to have sex with him after 1 year to the relationship.He doesn't force me to do so..but then he does want it..I am unsure about myself coz I feel in a way I would be cheating my parents and breaking their trust and misuse the freedom I've got..(I am from India). I cannot lose him, I love him a lot...but now what...

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  • enticing_ash
    8 years ago

    But if you don't find yourself comfortable to have sex with your guy then you should give a little more time to your relationship. May be after sometime you'd be able to make a decision. It's always better to take your time. And these decisions must not depend on how long the relationship has run.

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  • enticing_ash
    8 years ago

    It's admirable. :)
    I can understand as I too am Indian. But if he's loyal and if u think he deserves it then you should not deprive him of it.
    As far as cheating your parents is concerned, there's nothing like cheating here. Do your parents know about this guy? If not, are you afraid that your parents won't accept this relationship? If it is so, then let me tell you that the scenario is changing here. My elder brother married to his love recently; that too with full consent of both the families. Both the families were quite happy. It was a common traditional marriage ceremony as it happens in the country.
    So, if you really love your guy and you intend to be with him lifelong, you should not let anything hold you back.

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    • curious_seeker
      8 years ago

      We have a difficult future coz we come frm very different backgrounds...bt then we've promised we will try our best. If it's not the two of us..we'd both never marry.. Bt my parents mean the world to me..coz I'm the only child you know and they're my best friends and taking this relationship to that level would be breaking the trust they've put in me and that wouldn't make me happy certainly my guy is such an understanding companion...may be I'm expecting too much from him

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  • bucho's_butt
    8 years ago

    This is a difficult situation. Do you allow him certain physical acts other than penetration? Not to be crass, but you should at least allow him to get off somehow, otherwise since he has made it clear what kind of relationship he's looking for you could lose him. Make sure not to string him along and be upfront with him.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    How old are you?

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    • charli.m
      8 years ago

      As she's stated that she is Indian, there's cultural factors in play that would mean age isn't really relevant here.

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