Is it normal to not have real friends?

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Well, let me start by saying i have NO real friends. I am in a group of friends, and they all like me, but i just don't view them as real friends. They never personally invite me to any parties or to hang out. It's like I'm part of the group, but not quite ALL there. i come out to some of the parties, but i don't think they're that fun. Just a bunch of annoying people getting drunk and looking like fools. I guess i am just more mature? Also i feel left out when a party happened and i didn't know about it. But then i remember that i wouldn't have even liked the party if i had went. Is it normal to feel like i have no real friends, considering my situation?

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  • Baloo
    12 years ago

    Jeez, you're lucky you get to have fake friends. I don't even have any of those.

    Well, looks like it's just me and you, internet.

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    • crimson_mamba
      12 years ago

      LOL

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  • mjh1288
    12 years ago

    real friends are extremely rare. they are the ones that invite you to everything and wanna chill with you any time they can. they are few and far between. be a real friend and you might find one willing to do the same.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    All the people that post this question should make some sort of group. Unless it's the same person...

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Those people who don't invite you to parties are probably aware that you think they're "a bunch of annoying people getting drunk and looking like fools" and don't want a killjoy party-pooper around when they're trying to have a good time and unwind.

    If that's not your idea of a good time, figure out what is and start doing that, then you're bound to find some new friends with common interests. Good luck.

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  • dude_Jones
    11 years ago

    At the next party with your fake friends, try talking to the "top of the conversation". It will exercise your wit, and you will get unexpected resopnses. I call it, "Social Artistry - the vitamin for life."

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  • atrudixman
    11 years ago

    I was the same way too and it took me years to realize what that feeling of not fitting in was, it was God separating from the world. Being of the world but not in the world is where God's chosen are.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Yeah, i know how you feel.. You're not alone, trust me. :) You'll find people who are right for you.

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  • growyourself
    12 years ago

    You're probably in high school. And you will probably feel this way until college.

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  • Death_Rises
    12 years ago

    Its normal I have the same feeling but it happenes and how old are you?

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  • forgotmyusername
    12 years ago

    perhaps you're just introverted.

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