Is it normal to not have feelings for the person you had sex with?

Just this morning the guy that every girl at my school is crushing on, came over and decided to loose his virginity to me. Im a sexually active band geek and i fall hard for any guy. Is it normal for me not to have feelings for him at all?

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Based on 73 votes (54 yes)
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Comments ( 12 )
  • BfingIToucher

    I guess he thought you were "safe." And my thought is that you are feeling nothing in order to avoid feeling something bad. It doesn't sound like he was bringing any positive feelings for you into this whole situation, like he made the decision that you were the one and you just went with it mindlessly. That can't feel good. This is what I read. My advice: don't waste yourself on someone using you. You're better than that, self-described band geek or not.

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  • Sara0303

    Omg

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  • perkynipps

    Thats ok i do it all the time, i has to get me ride sumwhere !!

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  • hueraaa

    lmfao ! ^

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  • khkk

    your a slut why would you bother with feelings, as long as you have a cock in you who cares

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  • Ramit10

    its pretty normal it goes on a lot. I've done it before.

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  • It depends on who u r bangin n y u r doing them! If it is 4 lov then not normal but 4 sex normal..

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  • Nerd girls are adorable thoo:P
    Anyway I dont think casual sex is smart but if you're ok with it I guess it's ok... Dont make it a habit tho. Like, don't be too easy... Yeah. Good luck(:

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  • General_Shepard

    STORY OF MY LIFE :P

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  • LiveLaughLove73

    It's probably a bet.. Why would guys want to date band geeks.. Unless he is a band geek too then ur perfect for each other

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  • blithe

    I'm guessing you weren't dating this guy? I guess this all depends on what your morals are. If you believe that it is okay to have sex with people that you don't love or care about, then, yes, this is normal. But some people, like me, believe that if you don't love those that you are intimate with, then you are doing this for your own pleasure and needs. I suggest that you find a steady boyfriend and go from there.

    Society would say this is normal, but I'm saying it's not.

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    Then maybe I should delve into the band geek stock?

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