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Hi My name is Jim and I'm 47 years old. and I have never had a girlfriend>and every girl I have known throughout my life just wanted me as a friend. Now I'm afraid I will be alone for the rest of my life and that terrifies me! and I'm scared to the point where I get very jumpy around girls. Please reply thanks
Go on a date with a female friend and get her to be painfully honest about what you do "wrong" in the eyes of women. You may require a bit of training but, have confidence. If you want a relationship and do the right things to have one, you will have one.
Well I think your hawt! Ok I'm your girlfriend now........why don't you ever call me? Go to the store and get me tampons! I don't feel like giving you a blow job! Give me money! Your moms a bitch! Why do you always lie to me! By the way, he's not yours. I slept with your dad.......and your mom.......and your brother........and your dog. O.O
A prostitute. They get the job done for the money you would have spent on a nice dinner.
I know how you feel friend.
Google "David DeAngelo - Double Your Dating" or "How To Become An Alpha Male" from John Alexander. Also look up other PUA gurus such as Vin DiCarlo, Derek Rake or since you're an older man Adam Gilad who specialises in coaching men dating younger women. Hope this helps. Put weeks of dedication into it and you will improve.
Aw, Jim - you make me sad. Not just for you, but for the fact that there are so many out there just like you (whatever the poll says). You have become your own worst enemy - girls just won't go for guys that "get jumpy" around them. Try dappled's advice, but (and this is vital): LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!
I was just talking about this to someone today but I believe everyone has a soulmate you just have to find them...
lower you're standards or get use to your right hand for the rest of your life!
Hmmm..maybe you should get some counseling. Maybe you're too picky? Maybe you're too shy or too aggressive? I think there's someone for everyone and 47 isn't too late. Good luck!
Have you tried an online dating site? I agree counseling might be a good idea. You might just be giving off the wrong signals and be unaware. Don't give up hope. I believe there is someone out there for everyone!