Is it normal to not have a relationship ever as an 18 yr old girl?

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I'm an 18-year-old senior girl in high school.
I've never had a real relationship, (i'm not counting those two week-long ones in middle school.)
I haven't kissed a guy in almost 2 years.
All my girl friends have boyfriends and my guy friends vise-versa. If they don't have a relationship they still get it in.
I'm a virgin..
I don't know if I emit some sort of "stay-away" vibe to guys or what..
I'm not the type of girl to follow around a guy or say sexy things to a guy so I'm not complaining that guys aren't hitting me up every day.
On my part, I have high-standars. It's not a shallow kind, though. My standards aren't even based on looks. I need to be attracted to someone for me like them, but they don't have to be super popular (even though i'm popular, and i'm not just saying this.. I want honest answers so i'm trying to be as honest as possible.) Im attracted to guys who I can actually have a conversation with, not the guys who sleep around, (which happen to be a lot of my friends, unfortunately.)
I don't even know what i'm asking here.. I'm just looking for any sort of feedback or opinions you could give me on my situation.
Thank you!

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  • FireWorks
    12 years ago

    I've lost count of how many times I found similar stories here. All I wanna say is it's utterly and completely normal. You're still in high school; that fact alone is much better than my condition. I'm 22. It's my last year in university but I've never been in a relationship, nor have I kissed a guy before. And yes, I'm still a virgin. Heck, I can't watch people kissing even though it's in only in the movie. But never once I thought it wasn't normal to be in such circumstance.
    Lighten up, girl! You still have a bright future ahead, what with the way you explain yourself. If I was still in high school and went to yours, I'd totally wanna be your friend! =D

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  • Aleks85
    12 years ago

    Depends on if you're hot or not. Sorry to be blunt.

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  • awerfgaerg
    12 years ago

    Matter of fact, I know girls like that (when I say know, I mean simply "know of"). There is absolutely nothing wrong with them whatsoever, but for some reason guys just don't really think of them in that way, or act upon it at least.

    My guess is that a. you aren't missing out on that much, in reality (at 18, and a fair bit beyond, I think the overwhelming majority of dating is fairly superficial), and that b. if you really wanted to, it wouldn't be all that hard to get attention from guys (be careful though, you might end up regretting it).

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  • Adelaide
    12 years ago

    It's normal.
    In your 18s, you have a lot of time before you, really no need to hurry with relationships :)

    If you feel like you need a guy who you can carry a conversation with, then just wait for the "right guy", because it's totally normal.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    I didn't date and do all that fun stuff until college. Saved myself quite a bit of drama I do believe.

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    Well, I've been single my entire life and I'm also a senior in high school. I don't know if I have any jurisdiction to offer advice but I'll help either ways. I suggest that you try meeting guys in places where conversationalists hang out, like a library. It's not abnormal to be single at 18. Love won't let you get away.

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