Is it normal to not have a date at 17?

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Probably a stupid question but It's been asked anyway. I cannot say that I'm physically attractive in the least, but I've heard from about everyone I know that I don't look totally repulsive. I've asked everyone, and I've never managed to make people hate me. I've never been fantastic in school but I've never failed either. I don't mean to took my own horn, but I'd like to imagine that I'm nice to just about everyone I speak too, and if I haven't been they won't let me know. And on top of all of this I am popular at school. It's easy for me to talk to just about anyone from any group and they won't immediately reject me. And thanks to this, I have many friends. But I'm still so fucking lonely.

All of my friends, and I do have droves of them, tell me I have no reason to be lonely because I have so many people to talk to. But I feel empty in an area right below my heart, and it aches whenever I think about never even going on a date before. Like, every single person I know has at least had some sort of relationship before or do now. Most of my friends have their boyfriends and girlfriends, and some of my friends even got together through their mutual friendship of me. My 10 year old sisters have boyfriends, which is too young, but that's when my peers started dating as well. I'm the only person I know who hasn't found anybody for them. Is this normal? And sorry in advance for this bitching I had to say it somewhere.

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  • kelili
    5 years ago

    Are you actively looking for a date or just waiting for one? I'm pretty sure that if you ask a girl that you like out she'll say yes.

    Just ask them.

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    • TheSauce
      5 years ago

      Thanks for the faith but the last girl I asked said she'd rather go to Hell.

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      • IrishPotato
        5 years ago

        Then that girl is obviously not one you'd want to go out with in the first place. Ask someone else.

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  • MrToxic
    5 years ago

    I'm friends with many people who're virgins late into their twenties. You sound like a good person who simply hasn't met the right human yet.

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  • Servian
    5 years ago

    Dont try at your age, but prepare and stay in shape enough to get a date in the future

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    Normal as normal can get.

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    • TheSauce
      5 years ago

      But then why is everyone else together? I'm like the %3 of my school that hasn't been with someone.

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      • nikkiclaire
        5 years ago

        I think you will find that most "relationships" at that age are just friendships.

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        • TheSauce
          5 years ago

          But it's like, I don't have anyone to talk to who'll take my words to heart like they do. Like if I told someone I loved them they'd say "aight" and when they say it those special people melt for them.

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