Is it normal to not have a boyfriend by now?

Why do you feel you need a boyfriend? There is nothing wrong with being single at any age. One day you'll meet someone with whom you'll just 'click' until then, you should be focusing on living your life and having fun with your friends.

That's sounds exactly like how I used to be. No joke. I know exactly how you feel. My friends would always say "You don't need a boyfriend." or "You just haven't met the right guy." Seriously it would piss me off, but then I finally realized they were right. I started focusing more on school and work and stopped focusing on the fact that I was single. Then before I knew it I was more comfortable with myself. I started to actually like myself and noticed that other people started to like me too.

Trust me when I say you don't need a boyfriend to be happy. Just try your best to focus on other things than wanting a relationship. I'm single, but I can honestly say I'm pleased with my life and I have accepted who I am. I'll admit a little more romance in life wouldn't hurt, but I've come to realize it's not what I need to be happy. I hope it's great when it happenou dons, but I'm not going to wait around for it to. I hope you won't either. Hope this helps. Have fun with your life :D

i didn't have boyfriends until high school. maybe it will happen eventually. how old are you anyway?

consider yourself lucky. boyfriends are super annoying and clingy. a few of them are also controlling or try to be.

Wear makeup and high heels. So ur frame is large. Do you have nice long legs? Then wear a skirt. Play up what you got and enhance your beauty

For the longest time I couldn't get a bf. It turned out ppl thought I was a lesbian. (I don't mean this offensively btw) maybe if you act more open and interested around guys...?

wow that sounds like me
even the details...except that i'm from china

maybe we should go with the flew and love will come to us eventually :)

u have to give it up girl! lol

Thanks for all the replies. :D

Uh .. that sounds like me .. 2 years ago.. Well, still I'm a bit shy and I'm not that easy going with guys specially cause I tend to be conservative with guys who start joking with me without me even knowing them. But, guess what.. You'll find just the right person in the right time.. which is when you stop wondering about it .. When I remember the first time I met my bf, it was very normal I never even thought of him as being my bf. You'll just feel it. Actually some guys do like you but they never show it :)

"Love Strikes When You Least Expect It"

It's not that difficult to make yourself more approachable. Just be nice, listen to other people, smile lots and be interested in what others have to say. I'm a male and some of my biggest crushes are ordinary-looking girls who just happen to be people I can really open up to. Besides, men who only look for physical appearance for long-term partners are dumb asses anyway.