Is it normal to not have a boyfriend

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Well I'm turning twenty in about 3 months even though that I'm really young. I feel that my life is stand-still.

I feel that my problem is this: I think there's something missing in my life, and that something I guess is a boyfriend, a companion who cares about me. In fact, I have never had one. While all my close friends are constantly going out with guys or having loving relationships. I know that I'm not deficient in the looks department I have always been told that I'm a pretty girl (Honestly, I'm not trying to be conceited, in fact I have lowest self esteem of anyone I know, I'm just trying to paint a clear picture). I have always been extremely shy, and I don't want to settle for just anyone who would play with my feelings I want someone who understands me and make effort to spend time with me.

I want to be successful so bad, but lack the social skills. I go to one of the top universities in my country. I don't know how to handle social situations so well and I'm afraid that will stand in the way of my future.

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  • Carlton03
    7 years ago

    Bubsys advice is absolutely rude and stupid.... keepsake has some good advice, I'm pretty exactly like you expect I'm a 27 year old male, I have barely had a girlfriend and feel my "dating skills" are not good, my social inguess are good in general and yeah I'm pretty damn shy hehe, I have very good online friends though,
    Not really any in real life, what country are you from?

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  • Keepsake
    7 years ago

    You're already aware of the problem - your social skills.

    If you're still uncomfortable with socializing in real life, maybe try making friends online first since you get to type out what you want to say. Just be safe online. >.>

    Or maybe join a club.

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  • BLOWMENOW
    7 years ago

    Start giving blowjobs and take cocks up your ass and bald cunt , which will equal instant boyfriend.

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  • bubsy
    7 years ago

    What you've got to do is simple, but not easy: get more physically attractive. Do that + get out of the house/dorm room more often = boyfriend.

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