Is it normal to not have a bestfriend or real and loyal friends ?

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I was surrounded by friends when I was little but when I grew up to 14 i ended up with "passive" friends doing normal things with them study,hang out... but they don't help me when I need them and they leave me alone when they see their bestfreinds .I feel so lonely so many times and I feel like crying to not be as much loved and cared about by friends.

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Based on 38 votes (31 yes)
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  • klebo
    8 years ago

    I think friends are not like they use to be now days,people are to much into themselves and what they want and selfish, with all the social media and ability to just text people don't get involved with others lives anymore and seems like everyone is so busy to talk but they can spend so much time on Facebook posting ridiculous stuff and so much about themselves and look at me attitude,so I am sorry you are struggling with this

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  • NathanScot
    8 years ago

    Real friends in these times are rare.People are selfish,canniving,calous etc. To be frank i have only 3 best buds n i prefer it that way.The rest are just people i cash in on every now and then.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    8 years ago

    I've been there OP, friends are constantly streaming in and out of my life.

    My advice is when you feel lonely work on hobbies you can do on your own, like drawing or jogging or instrument practice, and then the next time you feel alone you can keep going with it and use it as a distraction.

    I know we all need company and I'm sure you will find more friends, but it is possible to find moments of happiness without other people.

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  • kathyvictoria
    8 years ago

    Don't worry i feel the same way. Just remember, you make Friends in the most unexpected ways. :-)

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  • lentfull
    8 years ago

    Thanks a lot for your advice guys ! I'm really happy to listen from you :-)

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