Is it normal to not hate my mom?

my parents split the day after christmas 2008. and sence then i have not wanted to talk to my mom and i dont speak to my dad. my sister is leaving for collage and i hate my mom because she is making my sister go so far away. is it normal to always hate my mom for things that arent her fault? because i do.

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Based on 46 votes (25 yes)
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  • aussiewolf

    you should love your family no matter what because they will always be there for you and love you. if your mum passes on knowing that you hated her, that would be absolutely devastating and i think you will regret for the rest of your life because you will never ever get the chance to tell her that you love her.

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  • soccer2

    Maybe u feel this way because ur folks split. You may resent them for doing this. But parents usually try to do their best so just her a chance

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  • FourAMandstillgoin

    It's the first stage of it all, you'll move through this with time and go back to loving your parents if you've had a naturally good relationship with them to begin with. You're just a bit angry with the situation i think.

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  • Mayfair

    If your sister is leaving for college, how is your mom "making" her go so far away? Surely, that was your sister's decision.

    You don't say how old you are, but if you are over 18, you need to realize that "you" are responsible for your own happiness, not your parents. Even if you're not 18, you need to grow up, stop blaming your mother for things beyond her control, and focus on something other than how others are making your life miserable.

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  • kellstar

    I agree with soccer2 and aussiewolf.
    Both r great advice

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  • mooks

    You shouldn't hate your Mom, I dont. She is good at hitting my spot.

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