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I been with my bf for 10 years now. We are both 26 now and as time goes on i am less and less sexually attracted to him. I won't suck his penis because i just don't feel like. I feel like I don't love him anymore and his constantly asking for sex 😒 Is this normal?
While some people simply don't like certain sex acts, if you find yourself losing interest in him sexually in a general sense, it sounds like there are deeper issues causing that that need to be resolved.
The best advice I can give is to forget about the sex part and fix the rest of your relationship.
If it's this bad to the point where you're not even attracted to him discuss why.
I know a lot of people will hate on me for this...but I don't care. If he's gained weight or maybe he's eating poorly and his skin is getting greasy and stuff it's ok to say that. It's just as ok if it's his personality that has changed or maybe just the way he treats you.
The other consideration could be yourself, sometimes people go through changes themselves and there are some things to consider.
Do other men/women perk your sexual interest? This is important because if it's not JUST him that you're not interested in there may be something else going on such as hormonal changes or you might even be attracted to women.
The next thing to consider if you do still have sexual interest is if he doesn't make YOU feel sexy then you don't want to do sexy things. This is something you first need to decide on then you two to discuss together if you think this may be it.
Keep in mind that at some point in the future you may have to actually break it off with him if you are very honestly not interested in him. It's important to understand that your happiness is not second to his and that it's OK to end a relationship that isn't good for you even if it is good for someone else.
Stop making him ask! Be his personal naked cum dumpster or find him your replacement! Bad girl.