Is it normal to not give a guy a chance ?

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Okay, don't laugh,as I saw a similar post,& peeps laughed the guy off .I have unusally large genitals.I know, real problem ha.All the young women I've dated say I'm too big. Have dated older women who didn't complain much.Really would like to date someone near my age.I am sure other guys must have this problem ? is it normal to want to be with someone my age,and also is it normal for women my age to not even want to try ?

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago | pl

    Its normal for younger less experienced women to be afraid if you are extraordinarily well endowed. It's also normal for you to be interested in and prefer girls your own age. I think if you go for nice a girl your own age and wait until you're both in love then she'll be less afraid and more willing. Sex is better with someone you love anyway, trust me.

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    • ddpearce
      9 years ago

      Thanks so much ! I appreciate you taking the time to answer .

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago

        Honestly you have a "problem" many men would wish for.

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        • ㅤㅤㅤ
          9 years ago

          Everyone wants what they don't have. There's a guy with two dicks but I'm not sure how he feels.

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago

        No problem, I'm glad to help.

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    • ㅤㅤㅤ
      9 years ago

      I love reading your responses on stories, you're like Dr.Phil only you're actually helpful.

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago

        Thanks, that's really kind of you to say. How come I can't see your name though?

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    Thank you for being graphic. It's a relief to get advice from women that's easy to understand.

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    • Satanic_Cereal
      9 years ago

      Oh, ok.

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      • green_boogers
        9 years ago

        I really mean it.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want you? Unless you enjoy causing your lovers pain, you should not wish to be with someone who you will only cause pain, not pleasure. Grow up.

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    • ㅤㅤㅤ
      9 years ago

      Um I highly doubt that's what the guy is saying.

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        he sounds incredibly selfish to me.

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        • ㅤㅤㅤ
          9 years ago

          How could you infer that from this? To me it sounds like he's GENUINELY curious why younger women are frightened by it. It was a question that required an answer, not an accusation like yours.

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          • thegypsysailor
            9 years ago

            If he is as large as he says, then wanting someone who doesn't want him and who he would probably hurt, is incredibly selfish, in my mind. Be with someone who is comfortable with your size and be happy anybody can enjoy it, because it is a fallacy that "bigger is better" when it comes to dick size.

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            • ㅤㅤㅤ
              9 years ago

              Still not what he was saying/asking, buddy. He was wondering WHY people are so uncomfortable by it. Keyword, WHY. He never once mentioned about intentionally wanting to hurt anybody. Sorry, but you're just making things up now. Go watch that crazy anti-sex campaign lady on youtube or smthn.

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  • ddpearce
    9 years ago

    Well thank you ! No apology needed. I get joked at all the time from male friends,and a few lady friends,that I should go to California,& get into the porn industry,and make a lot of money while having fun.

    They know me,& I know they are joking,as I would never do that. However, perhaps you are right,and I will continue to search the web.

    I appreciate the feedback from all who replied on here. Again, Thanks for your comments people !

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  • ddpearce
    9 years ago

    I suppose I should clarify a few things .I dated one woman for 6 months. We did have a lot of foreplay,and tried many forms of affection.I would never force myself on anyone !I performed a lot of oral sex,and she honestly tried very slowly to accept me making love to her as it is what SHE wanted.We had close intimate sexual contact,just not in the conventional way,due to my size .

    However,I was only able to get the head in slightly,and she was frustrated, not me !I was content just to be with her .

    We can not help how we are born . This has happened with several women my age range,and different size women . I think you should be with someone you care about,not just for the sex.

    This is more of a physical issue .I have never forced, or hurt anyone with my equipment.I have always stopped before someone got hurt, be it physically,or emotionally,especially physically .I would never do that.

    Most men just think they would want this. It's sort of like women with breasts so huge,that their bra digs into their shoulders,& they have back problems.Usually, though, those women have a medical alternative if affordable .

    I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me in any aspect.By the same token,I feel a little uncomfortable dating women 20 years my senior.Not because of sex,but, because of being able to relate to them,or the lack thereof .I'm not discriminating about the age issue,as , if you care for someone,age should not be an issue.It would just be nice to be with someone near my age.

    I know there is no magic answer here. I just wanted to bounce this off someone else,as I appreciate everyone's input. I can't be the only guy with this problem,and it is a physical problem .If I was a woman,and saw me naked,I would be a bit scared also ! ?

    I truly believe there is someone for everybody . I'm not trying to force anything,or anyone . I'm a very patient guy . I'm not selfish,or looking to just please myself. Just looking for that certain someone .

    Thanks People !

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    • thegypsysailor
      9 years ago

      Well, this post (much better written and more informative) certainly does make my post seem insensitive and rude and I apologize.
      If the porn industry is to be believed, there are definitely women out there who can accommodate you, but as you said, they are few and far between.
      There must be serious web sites out there for folks like you, to hook up with women that can accommodate you.
      Good luck.

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