Is it normal to not give a damn what guys think of me?

I think you are most likely homely. You are hiding behind this "ideal" to shield yourself from that simple acceptance.

It's perfectly normal to be ugly, but don't go on some soapbox about how the people around you are superficial.

I think that it's great you can be yourself but that's a little extreme because to get a classy guy you have to be classy , and I'm sure you'd like a classy guy over a trashy guy who doesn't give a damn . And also there is a difference in being yourself and personal hygiene ... But do what you want it's your life .

"omg freak. you gotta get slutty clothes on, slap on loads of makeup and only ever do things that men want you to do"
OR, you can be independant, mature and do wahtever the hell you damn well like!
you don't have to dress up for men. you don't have to put on makeup. do what YOU want to do. want to wear makup for a party? go for it. want to turn up in a spud-sack. your call.
be independant and do what you want to.
(ps, am a guy who is going out with a woman who, as far as i know, has never dolled herself up. wouldn't be offended if she did, but i love her for her. not her clothes and makeup)

Ignore the hatred on here, sweetie. I think what you're doing is straight up admirable; I wish I had the confidence to leave my legs go more when I'm feeling lazy, but I'm working on it. And if people are gonna superficially judge you for doing what you're comfortable with, they aren't worth your time. I know for fact there are guys out there who know what's important.
My bf didn't come around with pretty words or expensive gifts or flare, but he accepts me and encourages me to be nothing but myself and loves that, and that is a more fulfilling relationship than any I've had before

I don't bahahaha

maybe you don't care, but you can be at least "classy", look "clean" and "french". I was acting like you, like a boy.

What you look like in how you take care of yourself says a lot about who you are.

You are destined to live in a trailer park and have no teeth and breasts that dangle to your knees.

Good luck.

That's actually pretty admirable. I wish I could be like that but I'm to self conscious.

truthfully...i dont give a crap either

Do what feels right for you

Good for you. It's good to dress up once in a while but we're with someone for the reality, not the made-up version.

I think it's normal. Sometimes it get's very tiring trying to keep a guy satisfied. There's day's when I don't feel like, "doin myself up", and then I have day's where I think I look fairly nice. It's good to maintain yourself, but at the same time people need to realize that they're going to have to accept you, and take you for who you are.

Beside's there will always be day's when you might not look, "so hot". No matter what anyone say's, we all have our, "bad day's". But It's good that you're showing your true self. A guy might be with a girl who wear's ton's of make up, and dresses to the hilt everyday, but imagine how much of a shocker it will be to him, when she take's off that mask.

That's why you need to hold on tight to those who think of you as beautiful whether you're dressed up or down, Looking hot n' sexy in your heels to puking your brain's out with the flu. One day you'll find a guy who you can let your hair down in front of, and he'll love you just the same.

You should put a little pride into how you look.
If you think about it, initially in most cases the first reason we go up to someone at a party, or the bar, or Taiwanese dance class is because we are somewhat attracted to them. If you want someone to like you for you, you have to put effort into the gateway that will allow them to get to know you AKA your looks. We would all like to think that we're not superficial but God gave us eyes.

Would you want a guy with a 2 foot beard and waist length hair?

I mean, kinda go you for being so independent but there's nothing wrong with making the best of yourself.