Is it normal to not give a crap about break ups?

They just dont bug me. I just find it abnormal to worry about them. Its just not me. So whats up INN or not?

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Based on 46 votes (29 yes)
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  • disthing

    Maybe your apathy is one of the contributing factors to your relationships breaking down? It probably should bug you.

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  • Koda

    You'll probably care if you ever lose someone that "really" means something to you.

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  • TheSecret

    You probably date people that you don't have very strong feelings about (that's not a problem). Probably better that way so that you can get to know them before you really start t like them. Or maybe your just very optimistic and think very rationally about those situations. Also a very good thing.

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  • Jeaneathean

    Maybe you haven't found the right person yet; or split up with the wrong/right person yet....

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    No, not really. I'd say that the vast majority of people I know who have broken up (including myself) really gave a crap.

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  • Shrubskill_Nurse

    It's a possibility you are not making a strong emotional attachment to them, so you don't really see a difference when you depart.

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  • mevsyou

    Whether it's normal or not doesn't mater. Keep up with not carrying about it, this will party off in the future when it should hurt. I am starting to become numb to things like this as well.

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  • Ibelievethis

    Finally. I have came across someone of the same mind as myself. I don't care about break ups either. I have never been in love and I just use men for sex, there I've said it! I often wonder though could my do I dare say cold hearted exterior when it comes to potential relationships be because I am so afraid of being hurt and I have walled my heart off. xx

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    • whoa whoa hold on there. were definitely not the same. i could never do that to a man even if he does that to me. infact o could never just use a human being like that.
      I DO NOT have a positive mindset. My family has beaten me so much im pretty much a immune to physical and mental trauma im just a dead soul in a body.
      We aren't the same.

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      • Ibelievethis

        No we're probably not the same they broke the mold when they made me...

        Sorry for your experiences. xxx

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        • But I do wish I could help people sometimes but to be honest I just can't I'm selfish and only care about myself and a few close to me. The way I talk about it, I DONT want to be like this but I'm just stuck like this I'm not like most people I'm VERY different if you actually sat down and talked with me. To put it simply I'm very backwards about most things.

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      • hitchman

        Suck my nigga dik an lick my asshole 2

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        • So childish but i wont let it bug me.

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          • hitchman

            Fukin cunt lissen 2 sum RAP & HIPHOP

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            • Ugh here we go again with immaturity…im starting to wonder if some of you are adults. And hey "stud" if you want to get a woman's attention by giving her good legit advice:here's MY advice sir don't call her rude names.

              And btw The hell kinda English are you speaking man? You know they have FREE dictionary apps nowadays…

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  • Skartreuse

    That's happened to me before but that was back in 8th grade when it wasn't too serious. I really liked him a lot, but I just didn't really feel bad or anything. I teared up but only because I'm the type of person that cries when I think "That's never going to happen again".

    Either you didn't have too powerful of feelings for him, you're really rational, you're very optimistic, or you're just the type that is totally okay with being alone.

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  • CrimsonRain

    The odd thing is i really liked that guy. But im just not sad. I dont even like making eye contact with him. To me theres no point i just have to let it go. I dont hate him now i just dont feel like speaking to him. Even if he calls my phone i ignore it.

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  • VioletTrees

    Your own breakups, or other people's?

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    • CrimsonRain

      Mine it just doesnt bug me

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      • VioletTrees

        Feel how you feel.

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