Is it normal to not get too friendly with certain people
Recently my friends Tom and Karen had a small dinner party. Tom invited a few people from the office where I also work. Tom was careful to make sure that only the people invited knew about this party, as it was planned as a reltively small affair, with only about 15 to twenty folks attending. Well, somehow, the firm's only black guy got wind of it. Although Tom and Karen did not invite him, he shows up at their door about a half hour after the party had begun. Karen met him at the door, and, shocked, summoned Tom.Tom told this guy that the party was for his friends, and not some office affair. He then, abruptly, slammed the door in this guy's face. I could not believe the nerve of this guy. Crashing a private party like that. I mean, everyone would have left, immediately, if Karen had let him in. Wouldn't you? I have no doubt that this guy's feelings were hurt. But who cares? I think we all had a normal reaction to this that night. Don't you agree? Tom's party turned out great, by the way. We all laughed and had a great time.