Is it normal to not get over being verbally abuse for many years?

I have been verbally abuse about how i look for 14 years. I have been told that I am so ugly that I should kill myself. That i am so ugly that no guy would ever touch me. I have even been told that I would lucky enough to get raped because that is the closest to ever getting a guy to be with me. I was told this in middle school. I still get teased but it is not as bad any more. But now when I hear someone try to cheer me up by telling me that I'm not ugly because my best friend's friend would have sex with me. That just makes me feel worse because it makes me feel like I am only good enough to have sex with. How do I get over this?

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  • jensapa

    Therapy. And more therapy...

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