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I know that this may sound a little shallow but I've realised that I don't find most men attractive. When I walk around campus in uni, I can count on one hand guys that I think are good looking.
Is it normal to rarely find a guy you are attracted to?
Normal, bottom 50% of men don't even register on women's radars as potential mates. This post is a good wakeup call for guys to lift, wear clothes that fit and take care of your skin.
that's a bit strange because college guys are young and generally in shape, take care of their appearance, have good style, etc. if you meant fat balding middle aged men then I could see your point, but not really on an average college campus.
I don't think that's necessarily true. When I was at university, most guys looked pretty average. There were some who were like you say, working out and keeping their looks up, but most were just meh average. Not outright ugly by any means, but not the kind of guys I'd make a beeline for.
So yeah, I can kind of relate to this post. Personally I don't think it's shallow to be somewhat selective about wanting partners who take care of themselves. I think it's only "shallow" when you're REALLY picky, rude about it, and have unrealistically narrow standards.
There's usually some redeeming feature. But that's not the same as wanting to slap them in invisible handcuffs and have them accompany to the bedroom.
That is not normal at all. That means you might be gay and that is a sin and god will punish you. Please repent.
Normal, but I'ma take a shot in the dark and say that you seem like someone who doesn't talk to a whole lot of people, if any. Because I was exactly like this until I started to talk/know people, physically attractive or not