Is it normal to not find dicks sexually attractive?

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I mean, I love my boyfriend with all my heart, just looking at him makes my heart skip a beat, and I would move the earth for him, but I just think dicks look weird. I look at a dick and I don't feel aroused. I have sex with him, and the feeling isn't the issue as I will often initiate sexual relations, but the dick is just... ick? I mean, I feel instantly aroused when I see boobs and vagina, but not a dick. I will be aroused at the fact that seeing his erect dick means my boyfriend wants me but not at the dick itself. Does anyone relate?

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  • Wellyoudliketoknoweh
    4 years ago

    Dicks do looks weird, but female genitals too. Nature made some weird stuff

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  • SkullsNRoses
    4 years ago

    To my un-biased asexual eye dicks do look much weirder than boobs. Vaginas are more of a minefield with some of the more perturding ones approaching dick levels of weird looking.

    Basically I don’t think it matters if you don’t find his penis in itself attractive. So long as you’re attracted to the rest of him and enjoy sexual activity with him I don’t think there’s an issue here. Dicks are just weird looking.

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  • momwatcher69
    4 years ago

    Are you one of those "only with the lights off" kinda gals?
    Maybe your exposure, to cocks, is limited?
    Try to "familiarize" yourself, with your b/f's "thing" and get used to it. Also, watch a little porn, and "get used" to what cocks look like, hard and soft, and increase your exposure to a naked man's anatomy.
    It's kinda interesting you are "instantly aroused when I see boobs and vagina, but not a dick".

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  • dereknor
    4 years ago

    Dicks look like some weird alien mutation. Its totally normal to not feel sexually attracted to them :)

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  • ApplePine
    4 years ago

    Genitals look weird but at least they feel good

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  • SKDM007
    4 years ago

    not all dicks look the same
    and maybe you havent masturbated much in your life?

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  • litelander8
    4 years ago

    Yes. Totally agree.

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  • LloydAsher
    4 years ago

    I can agree with that as a guy. Dicks aren't inherently hot like boobs are. Dicks are just a means to an end. Though I wonder if you get turned on by insemination fantasies.

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    • Doesnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      Shes a woman dude don't you think that changes things? I personally am worried she may be bi.

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      • LloydAsher
        4 years ago

        Worried?

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        • Doesnormalmatter
          4 years ago

          Yeah if shes bi and commited to a boy, isn't it possible that that could develop problems?

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          • momwatcher69
            4 years ago

            She said: "I love my boyfriend with all my heart, just looking at him makes my heart skip a beat, and I would move the earth for him" ,
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            "I feel instantly aroused when I see boobs and vagina, , but not a dick".
            HOW is that a "problem"?
            I'm not personally attracted to kneecaps, earlobes, elbows, or toes.... to each their own.

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          • LloydAsher
            4 years ago

            Or a threesome if the guy is smart about it.

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            • Doesnormalmatter
              4 years ago

              I don't suspect a majority of guys would be cool witha threesome. I mean its possible her bf would like it, and I sure would.

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