Is it normal to not find black people sexually attractive?

I've never really found black people sexually attractive. I can't think of any reason why I don't though. I'm not a racist. I do not see any race as inferior to another, and no one should believe such things themselves. But I just don't feel sexually attracted to them.

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  • hungDaddy

    It is normal, and it is normal to have preferences. The problem lies within how much people feel the need to bring it up.

    Like if a black person, or someone of a specific group or feature, is hitting on you and you don't want that, just reject. No need to mention, "Well, you see, I just don't like black people."

    There's no need for the extra specification. Just have a preference and move along.

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    • cinderfloof

      Exactly. I don't see a problem with a preference, but it is annoying how many people I hear talking about how they just don't find black people (women especially) attractive. It's so common that I honestly wonder why people even feel the need to constantly seek validation about it.

      Statistics about the fact are interesting too. We see preferences as personal, but online dating lets us see trends in those opinions. If society didn't influence our preferences, an equal amount of people would like each sub-type of race and gender. That's not the case. People dis proportionally find Asian Men and Black Women as unattractive and prefer Asian Women and White Men. It's interesting.

      Of course I still don't think that OP is racist, if different races appear different then they'll obviously be to different people's tastes, but it's interesting to think about how society influences general tastes and if perhaps those influences have roots in racism.

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      • hungDaddy

        Yeah I feel for everything you're saying, and I believe that it's definitely rooted in racism. I live in Canada, and in a coastal city that's extremely diverse. The ONLY people that I hear saying they have racial preferences are white people from white families, and I've been with plenty of non-white people before and have never heard this from them.

        Similarly, I've dated a guy from Alberta, which is essentially where our super white people (I guess that's the only way I can describe it) are, and he constantly made it a point that he doesn't like "black pussy". He also commented whenever he came to visit about how "colourful" it is here and that is wasn't like how it is back home for him. Ironically, he's the only person I know that constantly uses racial slurs as jokes. There's definitely racism there as compared to here and it influences A LOT.

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        • cinderfloof

          Same here! I come from Chicago, but I go to school in a rural state college surrounded by cornfields. I've had so many comments about my race. Men often feel the need to approach me and tell me about how they'd never date me because I'm black, even though I have a long distance boyfriend and never romantically consider them to begin with. It's jarring, ESPECIALLY when they feel the need to describe why. I think it's no coincidence that these boys talk about how they "just don't like black women" and then go into a speech about how they're ghetto, loud, and uneducated. Your preference, in that case, is rooted in blatant racism.

          I'm sorry you had to deal with that boyfriend though. It sounds annoying. I almost dated a guy who was similar. He then proceeded to tell me how I was lucky my ancestors were brought here as slaves, because if not I would have been "in a desert hut with my eighth child". Thank god I dodged that bullet.

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          • hungDaddy

            Ugh good for you for finding someone not like any of these cornfield people. I'm sorry that you're experiencing what's going on there though!!

            It just sucks to think about though because imo, places like that are never truly going to lose that racial streak. They can sit and be proud that they aren't treating black people poorly, but then talk like that and that's really not going to change. Personally, I have no idea how to fix those types of problems and it grates me A LOT.

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  • Buttchugger420

    Have you seen black men
    Like
    Are you blind

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    • IrishPotato

      I generally go outside in the dark so no, I haven't.

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      • Buttchugger420

        Holy shit lmao

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  • lordofopinions

    I love black women and I'm a male. If you don't find black women sexually attractive that's your personal choice. Not racist. What about other races like orientals?

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  • cinderfloof

    I see a post like this at least once a week. You guys have to know its normal by now, right?

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    What you have is called a preference. It's not racist at all.

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  • geek_god_101

    That's a preference. Some things people don't find attractive. I don't find tattoos or body piercings attractive but others do.

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  • bigbudchonga

    Sexual preference is nobodies fault, a lot of people don't find certain races attractive

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  • Jinko

    Extremely normal, dude don't worry about it

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  • IrishPotato

    Me neither.

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  • CozmoWank

    You must be an equal opportunity fucker. It's the law.

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  • I feel sexually attracted to black people, male AND female! There's nothing like being gangbanged by a group of bbc!

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  • intrakitt

    Yes, it's normal. Many black people, including myself don't find some other races attractive. A majority of black people don't find whites even remotely attractive. Not only that, but you need to stop looking at it from a racist point of view. I know you THINK you're not racist, but simply thinking you are the of the race that thinks this and don't take into consideration that other races think that about you is in and of itself, racist. Please, look up the proper definition of the word.

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  • IrishPotato

    Black people's skin looks like stuff I shit. I ain't touching that brother.

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  • So what if it's racist? Why do people need to excuse themselves so much these days for not liking particular people? What the hell happened to the freedom of speech? It's your choice. You don't have to explain or excuse it to anybody.

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    • RoseIsabella

      ... but it's no more racist than a guy who exclusively likes Asian women or a woman who prefers Latinos. Everyone has a type! Lots of people prefer blonds or brunettes, some people actually prefer Black people and some people even prefer Gingers. I don't think someone's preference or type is an inherently racist thing. Racism isn't so much a state of being as an action. A person may be or not be prejudiced, but it's that person's actions that are racist or not racist.

      Regardless, people are entitled to their opinions and preferences therefore no one should ever owe anyone an explanation as to why they are not attracted to anyone!

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      • Absolutely! I love Asians I got a Chinese gf. That not a racist thing indeed. Totally agree with you.

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        • Corvetted

          Hott

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