Is it normal to not feel the same about him

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Ok I have been with my guy almost two years now we have a 2month old son and are engaged . About 3 or 4 weeks ago he started texting an old friend or so I thought (it was a female) I trusted him cuz I thought they were just friends well he started acting weird and being rude to me. So I looked through his phone when he wasn't in the room and found out him and this girl wee talking sexual sending nude pics and talking about hanging out. I confronted him about this and he said it's not cheating that he was just leading her on to make me mad but he broke up with me cuz he said I didn't trust him and was nosy. We got back together now he hasnt txt her or so he says but I don't feel the same for him anymore and idk what to do . Some help or suggestions please

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Dr. Phil needs to create an account on here so he can handle the torrent of relationship questions lol

    He's using you and doesn't care anything about you. Leave.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Any man who would leave a woman he has a child with is despicable. In fact, "Certainly if anyone does not provide for those who are his own, and especially for those who are members of his household, he has disowned the faith and is worse than a person without faith." 1Timothy 5:8.

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  • MadMar
    13 years ago

    He was doing it to make you mad.... But when you found out he broke up with you because you didn't trust him? Does that make any sense to you? Really do you have to ask?!?!

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  • Blackcat3
    10 years ago

    Why would he want to make you mad in first place can i ask ?? ... He says that because he is caught you have a son now he is most important you dont want him growing up through the negative atmosphere between you two in future you marry him and he may do it again ..

    If it was me i be gone because not for just my own welfare but my childs also i grew up in a negative household mother father always fighting then seperated and mother stopped my father from seeing us because his new gf was the obe he was off with behibd her back she resented him over it and his new gf !

    worst thing if you do leave do not.stop him seen his child if you managed get over it and put past u to be with.him then you can do it again for sake your child and so ye may get alobf around the chikd ! He is most important in this ye arguing around him is what he will do in future

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  • Sotchi
    13 years ago

    Yeah right, he only said he was doing it to make you mad cuz he got caught! What a prick. I don't blame you at all for not looking at him the same. It's a personal decision whether you're willing to look past it or not though. It may happen again or it may not. What are you willing to put yourself through? If you make the decision to give the relationship a chance I think it would be good to not bring it up anymore and honestly try to put it behind you. Easier said than done, but you don't want that dark cloud always hanging over you guys.

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  • wreckd
    13 years ago

    DON'T MARRY HIM! Just leave. You and your son don't need him in your life. You would be selfish to stay. Right now your son is only 2 months and won't remember the arguments. He doesn't need to grow up in a negative environment.

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