Is it normal to not feel the feeling of "love"

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Whenever I get into a relationship, I always like the person a lot but can never love them. I've taken it to higher levels (physically) and I have also tried not taking it to higher levels but it doesn't work. When we break up it hurts a little but I bounce back within 2 days. Even if it's a long relationship! I'm not sure I will be able to love someone?! IIN??

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  • joolia03
    8 years ago

    Lol how old are you? You've probably just haven't fallen in love and trust me, it comes when you least expected. Love is not a choice, it's just gonna happen and it's not usually the happiest of ending as in that person you love may not love you back and it'll sting. Thats when you won't be able to bounce back within two days after a break-up.

    But some advice just remember to be open about it and don't be closed off to the idea of falling in love or else youll never experience it which means you've missed out. Love may be vulnerable and make you feel things you've never thought you feel but you'll feel real and be thankful for that journey whether it worked out or not. You'll grow from it and become stronger, I promise.

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  • wildflowerkmk
    12 years ago

    I totally understand. Maybe some people are born to live single. (as in not fall in love)

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  • fanfanackapan
    12 years ago

    I am 43 and still never fallen in love.I have had crushes,but always run from any possible real relationship.

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  • wildflowerkmk
    12 years ago

    I think I'll find it one day, but I don't want to fake it.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    I find it harder than I used to. Being in love makes you kind of vulnerable and I've been stung quite a few times. I know what I should do is be just as vulnerable but pick my partner better. I'm a bit of a disaster area there, though. I usually make bad choices.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    You'll know love when you meet the right person, you'll not get over them so easily. Don't worry about it until then.

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