Is it normal to not feel good enough for him?

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Is it normal to not feel good enough? My boyfriend is well rather extremely good looking, he gets hit on ALL the time by many females (all of the upper class-- you know the ones who think they are better than you).. I am kind of average.. and not as "hot" as them, I am not really skinny but i am also not over weight. He reassures me that i am the only one for him... but i still feel like I am out of place at times, even though we've been happily together for 6+ months now.

By the way ALL of his past ex's were very skinny..

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  • justaname
    12 years ago

    You need to trust what your partner tells you. I know my partner at times has the very same insecurity and they are totally misplaced, in my eyes she is the most beautiful person I know. An this goes past just looks.

    To all the females saying they also feel this way. We "put up" with the insecurity because we love you

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    Get this thought out of your head, you're probably great. If you let this little thing bug you it can hurt your relationship. Don't think about those other girls.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    Wow good post! I feel the same way. Sometimes I don't see how guys put up with us and our insecurities. haha

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  • my3tinkerbell
    12 years ago

    sometimes i feel the same way.

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  • thequestionable?
    12 years ago

    Think nothing of it.
    He's with YOU, because he wants YOU!
    Not the past ones, obviously their xs' for a reason. (:

    Your the now, so don't take it for granted. <3

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I feel like this too.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    He's with you for a reason and you should know that reason..

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You feel insecure and yet he keeps reassuring you that you are "the only one for him." So whats the problem here?

    If I were him I would be pissed off by having to constantly reassure you. I would then proceed to dump your ass. Cheers :)

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