Is it normal to not feel desirable

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My boyfriend and I have been going out a year and 3 months. At the beginning of our relationship we would have sex all the time. He would ALWAYS be touching me and telling me how bad he wanted me and how sexy I am.However after about 6 months it really died down. And now we haven't had sex for 4 months. We are great together. Anc love each other very much. However I don't understand this. When we try and talk about it he just says he doesn't know why we don't. Is it normal to feel undesirable/ not sexy because of this?? Is it normal to feel hurt when I found porn in the history when he won't even touch me anymore? Im so confused what I'm doing wrong..
I'll also add we live together.
Any advice?

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    Why would a doctor be necessary? He's obviously getting it up to porn. To the OP, I don't know what to tell ya. Have you gained weight? Is he getting it somewhere else? Do you ever even try to initiate it? An "I don't know why" from him doesn't really cut it.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    This is not normal, and should be looked into deeper. Start with a checkup at a doctor for him. Discuss this with a doctor no matter how uncomfortable, and then move to the next step if necessary.

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